2019’s Best Fleshlight Girls Inserts [REVIEW]

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Fleshlight Girls Inner Canal Series

Most of the canals that will be discussed here can be found in combination with the orifices contained in the Fleshlight Girls sequence.

You can get almost all canal textures by purchasing just one Fleshlight Girls pussy.

The ‘Lotus’ texture for examples, is the standard by which other canals are made.

This can be combined with different types of Fleshlight.

You also have the “Swallow” texture that can be used all Fleshlight Girls openings, also the “Forbidden’ texture too can be used with a wide variety of openings as well.

 

Lotus Texture - Girls Pussy Orifices
Lotus Texture

Fleshlight Girls – Lotus Texture

The Lotus texture gives one a stimulation which can be considered to be real, with varying degree of intensity and sensations, which provide an ideal suction effect.

If you are looking for that lovely realistic feeling from masturbation, you will find the Lotus insert impressive.

The penetration is amazing and you are sure to get a magnificent stimulation.

Tweet: The Lotus texture gives one a stimulation which can be considered to be real, with varying degree of intensity and sensations, which provide an ideal suction https://ctt.ac/iG8XQ+ you are looking for that lovely realistic feeling from masturbation, you will find the Lotus insert https://ctt.ac/cnSCx+ penetration is amazing and you are sure to get a magnificent stimulation.

Fleshlight Girls – Mini-Lotus Texture

Mini-Lotus Texture
Mini-Lotus Texture

The Mini-Lotus insert, is an upgrade from the classic Lotus, and buttresses the fact that are carefully thought out product that be made a lot better.

A lot of people see the Mini-Lotus as an upgrade due to the extra chambers, which provide more stimulating and suction effect.

Tweet: The Mini-Lotus insert, is an upgrade from the classic Lotus, and buttresses the fact that are carefully thought out product that be made a lot better.A lot of people see the Mini-Lotus as an upgrade due to the extra chambers, which provide more stimulating and suction effectAsides that, breaking through the Lotus node, and the real feel that you derive from masturbation are about the same as you would get while inside the classic lotus.

If you have short or medium sized penis, the Mini-Lotus canal would be an ideal choice.

This is due to the fact that you can easily access the inner Lotus chambers.

Fleshlight Girls – Gauntlet Texture (Jesse Jane)

The Gauntlet texture fondly referred to as Jesse Jane provides users with a wide array of stimulations that are accompanied by evolving degrees of tightening sensation and several levels of massage stimulations.

You derive extreme pleasure from penetrating inside the lotus node canal.

Fleshlight Girls - Gauntlet Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Gauntlet Texture

This is mainly due to the fact that the Lotus node is found close to the entrance of the canal.

If you have a short-sized dick then I recommend this Fleshlight for you.

If you are feeling indecisive and you do not know which to choose and you love Jessa Jane pussy orifice, I recommend you go for the Gauntlet canal.

Fleshlight Girls – Lotus Garden Texture (Katsuni)

Lotus Garden Texture (Katsuni)
Lotus Garden Texture (Katsuni) – Fleshlight Girls

The Lotus Garden Fleshlight is amazing when it comes to stimulation and providing users with an extremely tight feeling.

The lotus nodes which are inside the canal, stimulate the penis in a totally different manner compared to other kinds of lotus inserts.

I won’t recommend this texture of beginners, however, it is ideal for people who have experience making use of the lotus Fleshlight and are looking to try out new things.

Tweet: The lotus nodes which are inside the canal, stimulate the penis in a totally different manner compared to other kinds of lotus inserts.I won’t recommend this texture of beginners, however, it is ideal for people who have experience making use of the lotus Fleshlight and are looking to try out new things.

Fleshlight Girls – Tease Texture (Tera Patrick)

The tease texture, I must confess was developed after careful research and development had been carried out.

This time, the manufacturers went out of their way to tell us that they had carefully done their homework.

Comparing with other versions, it is easy to spot the difference in the canal texture.

The tease texture gives users an amazing new sense of stimulation you have never experienced before.

Fleshlight Girls – Tease Texture (Tera Patrick)
Tease Texture (Tera Patrick)

For those thinking that there is not new to introduce into the Lotus texture concept, the tease texture would leave you in shock.

There has been a drastic improvement in the ratio of tightness to width and also the suction effect one gets to feel has also been improved tremendously.

Add to that the improvement to the hourglass chamber and you are certain you are onto something really great here.

Fleshlight Girls EU – Primal Texture

 Primal Texture
Primal Texture – EU Pussy Orifices

The Primal texture is a combination of past experiences and also already established, tried and tested elements which are able to combine to develop a wide range of sensations and stimulations that gives one an amazing suction effect.

Currently, in the market today, there is no Fleshlight that provides one with the same intensity and variety of textures that the Primal canal does.

Fleshlight Girls – Destroya Texture (Stoya)

Fans of the Destroya insert can attest to the magnificent and super intense stimulation one derives from it, add that to the varying degree of tightness and deep suction effect one gets.

Destroya Texture (Stoya)
Destroya Texture (Stoya) Pussy – Fleshlight Girls

Interacting with the bumps which are soft and spiky in nature and are situated at different areas around the canal gives one an intense stimulation, which drives one to a very strong and intense orgasm.

According to most people, the Destroya insert is the most effective of all Fleshlights and is arguably the winner of the Fleshlight comparison test.

Tweet: Interacting with the bumps which are soft and spiky in nature and are situated at different areas around the canal gives one an intense stimulation, which drives one to a very strong and intense orgasm.According to most people, the Destroya insert is the most effective of all Fleshlights and is arguably the winner of the Fleshlight comparison test.

Fleshlight Girls – Attack Texture (Christy Mack)

Attack Texture (Christy Mack)
Attack Texture (Christy Mack) Pussy – Fleshlight Girls

We must applaud the neatly and smartly designed texture elements inside the attack canal, which makes it highly recommended for lovers of natural stimulations.

The soft but firm bump texture which provides users with a natural stimulating feeling, add that to the collision that is found at the end of the main chamber which is as close as you would get to something real.

Another thing worth mentioning is the quick change in effect from the canal entrance to right inside the pussy and the constant change of feeling back and forth.

Fleshlight Girls – Bi-Hive Texture (Bibi Jones)

With the Bi-Hive canal, you get a strong stimulating effect that has impact on different points with varying levels of intensity which is usually halted in the center of the canal by a magnificent feeling of stimulation.

It is very difficult to get uninterrupted long sessions of masturbation which makes it quite difficult to hold your cum for a sustained period of time.

Fleshlight Girls - Bi-Hive Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Bi-Hive Texture

As a result, this Fleshlight is ideal for very short but intense masturbation. It is also ideal for men with large penis size.

Fleshlight Girls – Bump N Grind Texture (Misty Stone)

Bump N Grind Texture
Bump N Grind Texture (Misty Stone) Pussy – Fleshlight

Due to the neat arrangement inside the Bump N Grind texture, the inner canal creates a varying stimulating effect, which combines pointed stimulations together with soft embracing stimulations.

For those who are in love with brown chocolate pussies, the Bump and Grind Texture is a must own.

Fleshlight Girls – Love Humps Texture (Teagan Presley)

Love Humps Texture (Teagan Presley)
Love Humps Texture Pussy (Teagan Presley)

The love humps insert is a very gives ones a soft and very smooth stimulating effect, which comes together with a varying degree of tightness that is the result of an ever changing canal width.

The stimulating effect isn’t so intense and as a result its texture is loved by those who want to have a lovely feel of their Fleshlight for a prolonged period of time.

It is also idea for those who are new to Fleshlight and people who like stimulations that tend to be more realistic.

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Torrid Texture (Tori Black) Pussy
Torrid Texture (Tori Black) Pussy

The To Torrid Texture (Tori Black)rrid insert is an amazing mix of pointed stimulations along with very enjoyable penetrations.

The triple piece flap gives users a pleasurable stimulating effect.

If you are a lover of tight Fleshlights and you are looking to enjoy yourself for a prolonged period of time, I strongly recommend that you seriously consider the Torrid Fleshlight.

Fleshlight Girls – Outlaw Texture (Alexis Texas)

The Outlaw texture combines a natural looking stimulation with an unbelievable varying tightening feeling to create an amazing and unreal stimulation.

Outlaw Texture (Alexis Texas)
Outlaw Texture (Alexis Texas) Fleshlight Girls

Sliding through all the 3 levels of stimulation, one is met with varying degrees of pleasure that improves the general feeling with a great sense of penetration.

This Fleshlight is ideal for lovers of realistic, flesh-human like stimulations that tend to be very tight and pleasurable.

Fleshlight Girls – Bookworm Texture (Kayden Kross)

The overall winner of the recent Searchlight contest, the Bookworm canal is an owner’s delight.

This spiral arrangement of elements placed inside the canal is bound to give users a rapidly evolving intense sensation and stimulating effect which can only be magnified by a lot of isolated pointed stimulations.

This leads to users experience what specialist term as a milking sensation, which provides an awesome experience and also a spectacular feeling.

Bookworm Texture
Bookworm Texture (Kayden Kross) – Fleshlight Girls

For those who are not naturally fans of Kayden Kross but are looking to experience something very close to this, they can try out the Twista (Tera Patrick) or the Dragon (Asa Akira) texture.

Fleshlight Girls – Twisted Texture (Tera Patrick)

Twisted Texture (Tera Patrick) - Fleshlight
Twisted Texture (Tera Patrick)

The Twisted Texture, due to it magnificently positioned spiral ribs, provides users with an amazing milking feeling comes together with an amazing suction effect.

The spiral ribs leaves a firm feeling right around the head of your penis, which provides you with a totally amazing and special feeling.

If you are looking to try out a new experience with regards to the Fleshlight stimulation, I strongly recommend that you go for the Twista Insert, you would be so glad you did.

Fleshlight Girls – Dragon Texture (Asa Akira)

Fleshlight Girls – Dragon Texture
Dragon Texture Pussy

The amazing feeling you get from making use of this fantastic Fleshlight texture, the Dragon insert can be derived from the foreground of this insert.

The clearly identifiable spiral ribs are that hug the penis tightly is largely responsible for this, as it is always applying pressure on the top of the penis.

The pleasure you derive from this stimulation is enhanced further by the various smooth and pointed stimulations that are as a result of the bumps and the diagonal rib texture that is further enhanced with the help of an amazing suction effect.

In summary, this texture is amazing and it is highly recommended that you try to ride on the Dragon if the chance presents itself, most especially if you are a fan of Asa Akira.

Fleshlight Girls – Texas Tornado Texture (Alexis Texas)

The vibrating stimulating effect and also the wrap and hugging effect you derive from the Texas Tornado can be used to create an amazing ‘human-skin’ like natural feeling.

Texas Tornado Texture - Fleshlight Girls
Texas Tornado Texture – Fleshlight Girls

The specially exclusive, gentle but firm soft stimulation which has a long-lasting effect on your penis in frequencies that are quite realistic and feel just like you are right inside of a real vagina canal makes this product another amazing invention from the manufacturers.

The Texas Tornado is dead on to provide users with a close to real life experience one that you are bound not to forget in a hurry.

Fleshlight Girls – Cougar Texture (Nina Hartley)

Fleshlight Girls – Cougar Texture (Nina Hartley)
Fleshlight Girls – Cougar Texture (Nina Hartley)

The constant stimulating impact the cougar canal gives you most especially around your pelvic region, thereby creating an amazing penis massage that combines both pointed stimulations and smooth impulses.

However, to be able to get the maximum pleasure possible from the cougar texture, it is highly recommended that you turn the Fleshlight upside down preferably at an angle of ninety degrees.

At the original angles, the bumps are not so exciting.

These stimulation occur in a very fast manner and also at a high frequency and as a result usually lead to brief period of masturbation although they offer very deep enjoyment.

Due to the wide entrance of the cougar texture, it is highly recommended for men with a large dick size.

Fleshlight Girls – Misfit Texture (Joanna Angel)

Fleshlight Girls
Cougar Texture (Nina Hartley)

The misfit insert does not leave any space for a dull moment largely due to the wide variety of textures on offer.

This is sure to give you varying masturbation feeling with also varying levels of stimulation.

In addition, the canal gives you an amazing level of tightness that only gets more intense the deeper you push inside the canal.

Lovers of very tight canals, would find this very pleasurable.

This is because the deeper you go inside the canal the tighter it becomes.

If you love your canals very tight you would find the Misfit Fleshlight to be a must have.

Due to its optimal positioning of texture elements, this canal is highly recommended for men with medium to short dick length.

Fleshlight Girls – Indulge Texture (Angela White)

Indulge Texture (Angela White)
Indulge Texture (Angela White)

The indulge texture is an amazing choice for lovers of superbly intense stimulating pleasures.

This is due to the fact that the bumps inside the canals are shaped in form of a mushroom and the pointed edges have a very strong and direct impact on the penis.

In addition, due to the extremely high elasticity of the bumps, which can be halter upon penetration.

The padded that flows all across the length of the rib enhances the frequent bumps and stimulation you get with a varying change of tightness and stiffness.

If you combine all these with the suction effect one stands to derive you are bound to get a truly amazing and explosive mix which although leads to a very short masturbation albeit a very pleasurable one.

Fleshlight Girls – Obsession Texture (Jenna Haze)

Another amazing texture from the stables of the ILF is the obsession canal.

This texture comes with an optimal design.

Users are bound to get an amazing mixture of pointed and smooth stimulations with an amazing suction effect which makes for a perfectly smooth experience.

Fleshlight Girls - Obsession Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Obsession Texture

The effect comes in a very high frequency which acts on the penis and leads to very rapid ejaculation and orgasm.

This is more intense for men who have been circumcised and a less sensitive penis tip, the experience they are bound to get would be one they will not forget for the rest of their lives.

This is arguable the best Fleshlight for this range of products.

Fleshlight Girls – Barracuda Texture (Lisa Ann)

The covering and sharp massaging effect you stand to derive from the long and thing bumps inside the canals of the barracuda insets provides for an extremely pleasurable sensation that comes together with a fairly good suction effect.

Barracuda Texture (Lisa Ann)
Barracuda Texture (Lisa Ann)

Due to the way the bumps are arranged differently, the constriction the occurs between both chambers, is a lot more different when compared to the Vibro touch insert and gives users a new kind of stimulation which is ideal for both experienced and new Fleshlight users.

 

Fleshlight Girls – Nipple Alley Texture (Riley Steele)

Nipple Alley Texture (Riley Steele)
Nipple Alley Texture (Riley Steele)

The Nipple Alley has a proven reputation due to its strong and also sharp stimulating effect, this makes its massage very intense and covers the entire surface of the penis.

The effect of stimulation is a lot more intense inside of the Speed Bump but the same cannot be said of the Stamina training unit.

I would strongly recommend this Fleshlight for users looking for a bump texture with a strong mixture of mild and powerful point by point stimulations with average tightness and a very good suction effect.

Fleshlight Girls – Heavenly Texture (Jessica Drake)

Fleshlight Girls – Heavenly Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Heavenly Texture

The Heavenly texture provides a unique and also very different kind of stimulating effect that plays on the very tight and narrow inner canal that provides a very realistic kind of feeling.

The node is right in the middle of the canal and ensures the all changes contribute to the overall effect of the stimulation.

If you are curious to know what a tight virgin vagina will look like, I think the heavenly texture will give you a fairly good idea of what to expect.

Fleshlight Girls – Booty Texture (Christy Mack)

Booty Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Booty Texture

The booty texture canal is the ideal texture loved by connoisseurs, most especially if you are looking for a prolonged period of masturbation.

This is due to the fact that when compared with several other Fleshlight the booty texture does not add an over kill of stimulation which is as a result of a crowded bum or hard rib textures.

That said, the booty produces an amazing variation between an extremely tight and an extremely wide canal entrance that has a pulsating effect on the tip of the penis, albeit and a very mild frequency.

These all combine to produce a stimulation which not only pleasurable, but also bearable by the penis that in turn produces a natural and also realistic experience.

Fleshlight Girls – Punk Texture (Joanna Angel)

The Punk canal provides users with an amazing power packed yet smooth stimulating effect, due to the fact the various ribs are placed close to each other and provide for a very high frequency on the penis which leads to an intense masturbation experience.

Fleshlight Girls – Punk Texture
Fleshlight Girls – Punk Texture

In addition the canal looks very tight and also has a wild suction effect.

This wild effect and deep stimulation tends to lead to rapid orgasm and as such it is highly recommended for men with small dick head sensitivity.

Fleshlight Girls – Lust Texture (Jenna Haze)

Fleshlight Girls – Lust Textur
Fleshlight Girls – Lust Textur

The Lust texture canal is an anal texture design that provides pleasure and a tighten sensation that leads to a very good stimulating effect.

Although the intensity is not as intense as other textures and this in turn affect the surface of your dick moderately.

 

Due to the fact that you only experience the tightness when you get to the end of the canal, it requires that you dig as deep as possible to derive maximum pleasure.

As such, the Lust texture is recommended for men with long dick size.

Fleshlight Girls – Forbidden Texture

Forbidden Texture
Fleshlight Girls -Forbidden Texture

This is another amazing Fleshlight that gives you almost the same feeling you derive from having anal sex.

If you are looking to try out anal sex or what if feels like then the forbidden texture is strongly recommended.

Stoya Destroya Fleshlight Texture Review [NEW]

Stoya Destroya Fleshlight

Stoya Destroyer’s Pussy Power

The erotic superstar actress Stoya’s Destroya insert, which is available only together with Stoya’s pussy orifice is her high-class inner canal.

Stoya Destroyer’s Pussy Power
Stoya Destroyer’s Pussy Power

The canal comprises of a bump which is of high-density and also has a combination of different chamber shapes.

The beginning of the canal is a tight tube which is about 10 mm in width that is covered partly with small bumps that allow is to expand to an 18 by 18 chamber that is shaped like a sphere.

Tweet: The canal comprises of a bump which is of high-density and also has a combination of different chamber https://ctt.ac/amS5e+ beginning of the canal is a tight tube which is about 10 mm in width that is covered partly with small bumps that allow is to expand to an 18 by 18 chamber that is shaped like a sphere.

Bumpy Fleshlight Insert

There are several long looking bumps that can be found inside the chamber that allows it to taper at an extent.

The bumps are positioned face to face that they cover the whole spherical chamber.

Closely followed is a small chamber which is just about 10mm in width also and also expands to a longer and bigger chamber that is 16mm in width.

Inside this bigger chamber, you will find a ring of bumps that are flat and rectangular in shape, closely followed by another set of pointed bumps protruding at an angle of 45 degrees towards the entrance of the canal.

You will find at the end of the canal a ring comprising of a flat hemisphere and a bump which narrows downs to a smaller chamber which is just about 7 mm wide.

The final chamber you will encounter contains a light ridged texture comprising of a 2mm ribs.

Incredible Stimulation

Incredible Stimulation
Incredible Stimulation – Fleshlight

You are bound to experience an amazing form of stimulation which comes in wide variety and is very intense when inside the Destroya Sleeve.

Tweet: You are bound to experience an amazing form of stimulation which comes in wide variety and is very intense when inside the Destroya Sleeve.

The tightness you get to experience at the beginning of the passage is immediately followed with a tight feeling at the tip of your penis down through to the inner spherical chamber.

At the point where you want to get into the main chamber, you are bound to experience another tight feeling.

Once you get through and you are in the main chamber, the head of your penis begins to touch the ring of the bumps gently.

Your penis head is now surrounded with a collection of spiky bumps and gives you plenty pointed stimulations all resulting in very deep and intense erotic sensations.

How To Use The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight Sleeve

As you begin to thrust in and out, you intense level starts to fluctuate and the very tight sensations around the walls gets you the point of orgasm as quickly and powerful as possible that you derive maximum pleasure from climaxing in a way you cannot achieve with a real vagina.

How To Use The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight
How To Use The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight

If you have a regular sized penis of about 15cm you will not be able to reach the inner part of the Destroya canal, however this still serves as an amazing vacuum accumulator, which gives you a strong suction effect that adds extra intensity to your stimulation.

Tweet: If you have a regular sized penis of about 15cm you will not be able to reach the inner part of the Destroya canal, however this still serves as an amazing vacuum accumulator, which gives you a strong suction effect that adds extra intensity to your stimulation.

Cleanup

Cleanup - The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight
Cleanup – The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight

Tweet: Cleaning up the bump and the inner chambers of the Destroya canal can be a time-consuming process and you should endeavor to turn the inside https://ctt.ac/6Ea1X+ also takes some time to dry, typically about four to five hours

Cleaning up the bump and the inner chambers of the Destroya canal can be a time-consuming process and you should endeavor to turn the inside out.

It also takes some time to dry, typically about four to five hours.

Conclusion

With the Destroy Insert, you are sure to experience and amazing and very intense stimulating effect which also comes with different level of tightness and a deep suction effect.

Winner of the most recent Fleshlight test held, the Destroya Insert is the best texture Fleshlight currently available in the market today.

Tweet: With the Destroy Insert, you are sure to experience and amazing and very intense stimulating effect which also comes with different level of tightness and a deep suction https://ctt.ac/7417P+ of the most recent Fleshlight test held, the Destroya Insert is the best texture Fleshlight currently available in the market today.

9 Best Anal Fleshlights [UPDATED FOR 2019]

It’s high time you lived out your sexual fantasies in the most pleasurable way you can by getting yourself a top rated anal Fleshlight.

It’s time to be happy because these Fleshlight’s are actually modeled out of the anal canals of your favorite porn stars.

Are you interesting in having a good with Riley Reid from behind? You’ve come to the right place.

If you are looking to get an anal Fleshlight, there are links to each model discussed in this review.

If you are getting a Fleshlight for the first time and there are no external Fleshlight case to place your sleeve, you might have to spend an additional $15 to get a case.

It’s to make use of the sleeves without getting a case, but it is usually not super comfortable.

Lube makes the sleeve slippery, and it is always good to use a case for grip. $15 should be regarded as a sound investment and good value for money.

Quite a large number of the Fleshlights that have been added to our ratings are members of the Fleshlight Girl’s collection.

This means that they are replicas of anuses of actual Pornstars.

You can get the real feeling of a pornstar’s ass.

Tight, firm, and pleasurable.

1. EUPHORIA (Riley Reid)

Rated one of the best Anal Fleshlights

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for all Dick sizes

Considered one of the tightest Fleshlights ever, this is a pure replica of Riley Reid’s asshole.

This is actually my favorite anal Fleshlight.

It’s amazing design is one of the reasons I am in awe of this Fleshlight.

The entrance of the Fleshlight has enough wide to allow for easy penetration, but as soon as you get in, the width begins to contract and gets smaller and tighter.

This gives you a move comfortable feeling that a Fleshlight that is tight from the word go, due to the fact that you really do not to withdraw completely when in use.

In Euphoria, you experience the tight feeling right at the end part of the Fleshlight, and you get the experience of going into a tight space repeatedly.

Even if you are not thrusting in fully, you still experience that tightening sensation.

It is an amazing feeling as the entrance is usually wide for most penis to fit in.

For those who have a huge dick, you really have nothing to worry about.

2. EPIC (Stoya) – Ideal for men with big cocks

Costs: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for well-endowed men.

Epic anal Fleshlight, an exact replica of porn goddess Stoya – this is another amazing Fleshlight.

It comes filled with wild ridges, canals that follow one another, and demonic bumps, all of which combine to give you a truly exceptional wild experience.

The Epic might not be as tight as other Fleshlight in this review, however, it can boast of being the most intense Fleshlight money can buy.

If you have a huge penis, I would strongly recommend this as the right anal Fleshlight for your dick.

This mainly due to the fact that entry is not as tight as other Fleshlight, the patterns inside of the Fleshlight more than make up for this shortcoming.

3. LIT  (Riley Steele)

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for all sizes

For those who do not know Riley Steele, she is an amazing cute blonde with an extremely pleasurable anal Fleshlight, which is bound to leave you going nuts.

A quick look at this Fleshlight will reveal the amazing nubs, spirals, ridges and all bumps that are available all this combined is bound to leave you wanting a feel.

It can be said that the designer of this anal Fleshlight was looking for you to pass out once you fuck her as a result of intense stimulation.

If you are looking for some all-round crazy wild stimulation, I strongly recommend that you go for Riley Steele’s Fleshlight.

You’ll be glad you did.

4. SIREN (Anikka Albrite)

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for all sizes

Designed as the exact replica of Anikka Albrite’s ass, this Siren anal Fleshlight is a joy to own.

The entrance is so perfectly tight for one to enjoy the right stimulation and at the same time not be uncomfortable.

As soon as you are able to get inside the Siren, you have more room to move your dick around, but not for so long as you will get to hit another tight wall soon.

The next thing you know, you’ll be on cloud nine trying to pick yourself up from a thoroughly enjoyable orgasm.

5. Classic Pink Butt Anal Fleshlight

Cost: $59.95 from Fleshlight (includes case)

Perfect for men on the smaller side

This Classic collection of Fleshlight brought the Fleshlight franchise into limelight, and confirmed its place as one of the best manufacturers of sex toys worldwide. However, the question still remains if it still holds relevance in the sex toy market today?

To some extent it still does, although it has become a little bit numb for me right now.

My first experience with the Pink Butt left me in such awe, I could have sworn that it was the most important invention I had come across.

Over the years, Fleshlight collection has expanded to include a wide variety of products.

Although, the Fleshlight collection has grown tremendously, I have come to the realization that the inside of the Pink Butt is a little boring when compared with newer Fleshlights.

That said, as the OG Fleshlight, it’s still a very good option.

6. TORNADO (Alexis Texas)

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for all sizes

If you are looking to experience a wide range of emotions, Alexis Texas ass is the perfect Fleshlight for you.

This is suitable for men who like to get deep into a very tight asshole, without the provision of getting out.

You are sure to get this feeling anytime you try the Texas Tornado sleeve out. I must confess this is extremely amazing.

7. SAVAGE – the replica of Lisa Ann

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for small to medium sized dicks

This really lives up to its name.

The Savage Anal Fleshlight is a crazy Fleshlight with mad amazing spirals and curves which have been developed to give you an amazing feeling of intensity from both the tight feeling and the different patterns that gives you a stimulating feeling from different angles.

Quite an over the top ambitious strategy I must say, however it isn’t so perfect.

I must add, you dont get the same satisfaction as with other Fleshlights, but in summary, a good product.

You will love it if you prefer to go for mildly intense experience.

8. LUST (Jenna Haze)

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for small to medium sized dicks

This anal Fleshlight is the exact replica of supermodel pornstar Jenna Haze.

Its entrance is tight, so you get a pleasurable feeling sliding into Jenna’s ass.

Once you are inside, you do not have any breathing space, as it just keeps getting tighter the deeper you go.

Asides the fact that it is tight, the hallways are surrounded with ridges and bumps, so you get maximum pleasure and intensity from this Fleshlight.

It is amazing if you have a small to medium size dick, but I won’t recommend for those with large sized dicks.

9. BULLETPROOF (Teagan Presley)

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for all Dick sizes

I must say, I am not a fan of the bulletproof anal Fleshlight.

There is a consistent wave pattern via the whole sleeve, it also maintains a cool nice effect although it requires more variation.

I am always an advocate of anal Fleshlights having a tight entryway, after all isn’t it how we derive pleasure from anal?

If you are low on choices, I think bulletproof would be an okay choice to go for, although I will strongly recommend that you look at other alternatives available on the list, as I am sure you can get better options.

10. ENTICE – the replica of Angela White

Cost: $54.95 from Fleshlight

Perfect for no one

On first interaction I was really excited about this Fleshlight, after my first interaction, my expectations dampened.

Why? I came to the harsh realization that the Fleshlight had very boring patterns.

In addition to a very wide width at the point of entry, giving you a feeling of a very wide whole rather than an enticing ass.

Going inside also does not provide you with any different experience, it is basically more of the same.

I really do not like this one, but if you want, you can try it out at your own risk.

Shopping for an Anal Fleshlight

Getting new anal Fleshlight isn’t as difficult as one might think.

However, getting the one suitable for you still requires some sort of thinking and analysis.

It might seem pretty straight forward that you just go for the tightest Fleshlight, but in most cases this might not be an intelligent idea.

This is mainly due to the fact that your penis has an important role to play in how you enjoy your Fleshlight.

If you really want to derive maximum pleasure from your Fleshlight, then go for a variant that is perfect for you.

Taking this advice means you have nothing else to worry about.

As you can see in this review I have included the ideal dick sizes for all Fleshlights, this should aid in your decision making process.

So irrespective of your dick size you have the right Fleshlight to meet your needs.

How To Choose Your Sex Doll [NEW FOR 2019!]

Choosing Your Bedroom Companion

There has been surge in the variety and availability of sex dolls in recent years.

Sex doll manufacturers have definitely upped their game too.

We’re not talking about those old unappealing blow up dolls, we’re talking about gorgeous-looking sex dolls that look almost creepily lifelike.

They have joints, their orifices have special textures and they’re covered with what feel like the softest and smoothest skin.

If you shell out the extra cash, you’ll get the option to customize these dolls however way you want to fit your preferences.

I mean, ladies, we’re reaching dangerous territories here.

With that being said, all these choices can be a little daunting if you’re shopping around and trying to find out which one is the “the right one.”

It would be shame to get something that you won’t be completely satisfied with because these can go for a lot of money.

Not only are these products very specialized, the best ones are made with top of the line materials, so they can last you a while.

Why would you even need one?

Maybe you’re like me and you’ve reached a point where the old fashioned way of masturbating just doesn’t cut it anymore.

I’m even starting to get bored with makeshift pocket pussies.

Sounds familiar?

Well, a love doll, whether full size or otherwise, could be the solution to your problem.

Some of us need that “heft” and would like to feel something more substantial when jacking off.

It’s a good thing that there are these options for us that could end our frustration with solo play.

AND you’ll never have to worry about contracting any nasty STDs!

So what are sex dolls?

First of all, we have to address the taboo that surrounds this product.

Getting a love doll doesn’t automatically mean you’re a sad loser with an imaginary girlfriend.

It’s not really meant for that.

Sex dolls were made not as a replacement for an actual person.

They were made for the sole purpose of masturbation.

Nothing is ever going to substitute a relationship you can have with a human being.

There is no way you can share the same intimacy and trust that you can have a real partner because, first of all, this is an object.

It can’t talk or think for itself.

We really have to shatter this taboo because there’s nothing wrong with exploring a healthy sexual appetite.

Some gals (and guys, for that matter) think that sex dolls are a bit misogynistic.

It sort of plays into the fact that some men really do view women as mere objects.

While that’s a sad fact, I might argue that it’s better to enjoy these fantasies with actual objects and not real women.

Do you see what I’m saying?

Sex dolls are just an outlet for our frustrations and fantasies while having virtually no real consequence other than some real damage to your bank account.

However, there is really no shame in getting one of these beauties if you fully understand what you’re getting.

Now that we’ve established that it’s a sex toy, then it follows that used to mimic the sexual act.

What’s so attractive about this is that it doesn’t come with the hassles of having a wife or girlfriend.

You don’t have to be nice to it.

You don’t have to ask for sex.

This is one lady that will never ever say no.

I also have to note that there are other options if you don’t want to go for the whole shebang.

So if you’re not comfortable about having large mysterious packages shipped to your house, you don’t have to commit right away and go for the whole thing.

It just really depends on what you want and how much money you’re willing to shell out.

The very best ones that are ridiculously customizable down to the nails to the poutiness of the lips.

To state the obvious, you can customize the hair, the skin color, the size of the breasts, the shape of the pussy lips. You name it.

You can also tell if it’s high-quality if the parts are removable.

This makes clean up way easier and you also have the option to get these parts replaced.

Eventually, you’re going to want to do this after you’ve been with your doll a couple hundred times.

They won’t last forever.

They also have “skeletons” that make it so you can position it however way you want.

Just imagine the number of positions you can experiment with.

Naturally, the less expensive options won’t look as great.

If you don’t want to compromise on quality, then you could go for something “less complete,” like a torso or an ass.

Some might feel weird fucking something with a face, so this is a good option for that.

As a general rule, the more expensive it is, the higher the quality is going to be.

It’s just like with everything else.

That’s why I suggest that you invest in a good one and stay away from those sketchy websites that offer something that’s obviously not going to perform as it is advertised.

Do you think you should get one?

It could be likely that you’d be happy with something more compact.

But if you’re not the type that would question your life choices, having this thing lying around the house, then you should definitely get one.

Especially if you’re feeling a bit sexually frustrated or bored.

I seriously think anyone would get one anyway if it didn’t cost as much as a down payment on a good car.

Anyone who would say no to a free one, is a little weird in my book.

Here are some of the types of guys who could benefit from having a sex doll:

1. Getting a girl just isn’t an option

Let’s face it. Some guys just get easy pussy and some guys just aren’t born with the right hair and the right jawline to attract a mate.

Hell, some guys don’t even have the saving grace of humor to talk their way into it.

I guess that’s just how life goes, my friend.

But this doesn’t mean that  you can’t have fun by yourself.

If this is the closest way you can get to the female body, then I’d say it’s worth it.

You’ll also have to option to create the girl of your dreams, at least when it comes to the way that she looks.

It wouldn’t be fair to deprive yourself of even just that.

2. You’re busy as a beaver

Do you barely have enough time to eat and sleep by juggling two or three jobs?

Having to deal with all of this is sure to stress you out, let alone going out, treating a girl to dinner and wooing her to get her into bed.

If you’re trying to move up in the world, where you even find the time to do that?

Well, if you’re finding this all too relatable, then getting a doll is the way to go.

Having one handy is sure to be a pleasure when you do have the moment to settle in and have a relaxing night in.

3. You have problems with commitment

Maybe that’s just one of the issues that you have to overcome or you’re a recently divorced man who is not ready to get back in the game just yet.

Either way, if you want constant sex without having to spend a fortune on dates and always having to turn the charm on for the ladies, a doll is perfect for you.

4. You have threesome fantasies that just can’t be fulfilled

It’s not unusual for a girl to not be down for a threesome.

I’ve got to hand it to the ladies.

This is not unreasonable at all.

Being in a romantic relationship is all about exclusivity.

You don’t get to share your affections unless you’re in one of those hippie open relationship type deals that never seem to work.

If you’ve got an open-minded enough girl, this could be a good compromise.

You can act out your fantasy safely without her feeling threatened by another person.

Because that’s where the problem seems to be stemming from.

It’s highly unlikely that she’s going to get jealous because of a doll.

5. You’re looking for something better than the real thing

For purely utilitarian reasons, sex dolls are the best when it comes to sensation.

No woman is ever going to have crazy textures inside her or is going to vibrate.

Vaginas pretty much all feel the same, if we’re being totally honest here.

Yes, there are some things that set an individual vagina apart like its tightness or the shape of the labia.

But overall, it’s the same silky hole we know and love.

If you’re looking for something that’s a bit more challenging or even just more stimulating, then a doll is the answer to that.

There are teams behind these products who test the best materials, the best textures, the best configurations, to ensure the best orgasms ever.

Honestly, with the amount of work that goes into these, you really get what you pay for.

Alright. Now that we’ve got the basics covered and you’re starting to feel like you should gift yourself with one of these for Christmas, then let’s explore your options here.

The standard sex doll

So you want something full and are not really keen on something that looks like a severed torso.

I got you, fam.

Let’s start with the more economical options first and work our way up, shall we?

If you’re just looking to test one out and you don’t feel ready to invest in something that would make your girlfriend cry if she ever found out about it, I suggest that you go for an entry-level doll.

Believe me, these won’t go for cheap if that’s what you were thinking

. You can spend $500 to upwards of a thousand bucks for just the entry-level model!

So rethink this if you know yourself and think that you might want to move to a higher end one down the line.

It could save you the money.

Despite being entry-level, though, for $1000, you’re getting something that won’t break and won’t look butt ugly.

They’re just not the most realistic dolls, which could be good for some folks who have an anime fetish or have a thing for that plastic surgery look.

Most of these dolls are small too.

I’m not going to say anything if you’re into that in real life.

Who knows? You might be into… midgets.

You could still play around with the proportions, though.

Even though you have a 3-foot doll, it could have D-cup breasts.

The great thing about these smaller dolls is that they’re easier to hide. So if you’re trying to sneaky about this whole thing, then go for a smaller one.

Things start to get better with mid-range dolls.

They’re more comparable to high-end dolls, but you’ll definitely see the difference in the quality of the build.

For mid-range dolls, you’ll usually get a lower grade of silicone or thermoplastic elastomer.

The problem with TPE is that it’s porous, which means it will absorb lube or sweat and this will stain your doll over time.

I think it’s also worth mentioning that it doesn’t feel as lifelike as silicone, but it’s a great material if you want something a little firmer.

Another thing to note is the build of its skeleton. Yes, it’s still going to be made of metal, but probably the lighter kind. So the heft you were looking for? Nope, you’re not getting that in this one.

If you’ve positioned your doll to do some doggy-style fun, it’s going to hold that position, but it’s not going to push against you.

It feels a lot more insubstantial and the lower quality metal will wear out faster than that of the kind you can find in a higher-end doll.

But honestly, for the price, which usually goes for about $1000-$2000, you could get some good use out of it for a year or two.

If you calculate that per day, it’s not going to be much.

Now, if you’re ballin’ and always need the best thing that’s out there, go for a luxury doll.

The reason why these dolls are so expensive is because they’re not really mass produced.

They’re really more like artisan products, the way that they’re made.

Every imaginable part of the doll, you can customize. I’m not even kidding.

You can create this doll that will suit your taste to a tee.

People are going to work on this, not a machine.

So expect that it’s someone’s job to attach every eyelash on your doll. It’s that detailed.

Apart from the artistry, you can also be sure that the materials that go into making these dolls are the very best.

The skeleton will be strong and won’t be deformed under pressure.

These dolls will stand on their own and can really take a pounding.

As they should. I mean, these beauties can go for $2000 at the cheapest.

The most beautiful and lifelike dolls could create a $10,000 hole in your pocket.

That being said, a high-end doll will last you a while.

We’re talking 5 years if you carefully maintain it.

Here, I wouldn’t blame if you if you start an imaginary relationship with it.

Fetish dolls

If you don’t have the money for a high-end doll and you can’t customize the dolls that you can afford to your liking, there are dolls that are already premade to suit some of the usual fetishes.

Whether you have a thing for big boobs or a big ass, there are some options for you.

And it doesn’t end there.

You could go for something that looks a little more mature (because fucking something that looks too young is creepy) or something that looks a little cushy.

Whatever floats your boat, bro.

If you’ve thought about it, someone has made it.

Just the torso

Again, if you don’t have the funds to get a full doll (and honestly, there’s not much you can do with a pair of legs anyway), then you might want to get something that focuses only on the goodies.

You get the vagina, the butthole and the boobs.

What more could you want?

Some guys want something to hold for that extra stimulation, so this could be the right choice for you.

Also, if you’re a missionary type of guy or you like the “prone bone” position,  I would suggest that you just get this one.

It certainly gets the job done and it’s mighty comfortable.

Since it’s more compact, it’s easier to carry around the house and easier to stow away in case someone comes snooping.

Some of these come with a head, if you’re into that.

I don’t know why, but seeing and feeling some hair always gets me going.

Just the holes

Okay, maybe you want something ultra-discrete, then you might just want to get the regular pocket pussy or Fleshlight.

This is great if you find the whole concept of having a doll a little too creepy. I get it. It’s just not for everyone.

What’s great about the Fleshlight, in particular, is that it takes the realism to a whole new level by having some of their models molded out of your favorite porn stars or cam girls’ orifices.

If you’ve ever wondered what it would be like to be with Alexis Texas or Stoya, then this is probably the closest you can get to that experience.

Having your very pocket pussy can be very rewarding because of the selection of the textures you can get.

No real woman is ever going to feel like how these Fleshlight sleeves are designed. No way.

Think of this as just a step up from your regular masturbation technique, which I’m guessing just involves some lotion and your hand.

Well, this is exponentially better than that.

So if you don’t want the bulk and you think a full-blown sex doll is too much for you, I highly recommend that you get a pocket pussy.

And if you’re thinking that this isn’t a hands-free option, you’re sorely mistaken.

There are many ways you can use a Fleshlight without using your hands.

You could wedge it in between your mattress and the box spring. You could get a mount that was specifically made to house the Fleshlight.

You could even get the Launch (their patented auto-stroker) or one of those auto blowjob machines. I swear to you, you won’t be disappointed.

Conclusion and last minute tips

Overall, I would say that having a sex doll (or parts of it) is a great addition to any bedroom.

It enhances your masturbation sessions by adding another dimension to it.

At the risk of sounding like a giddy little girl, I get a kick out of putting my dolls in sexy little outfits that my girlfriend will never wear in a million years.

This is truly the chance to be with a different girl every single night.

All it takes is just some imagination, which we’re pros at tapping into by now, considering how long we’ve been masturbating.

If you’re unsure about what kind of lubes to use with these dolls, I suggest that you always go for something water-based.

Water-based lubes are compatible with any material and won’t damage your doll.

Remember, it’s important to maintain your doll to get the most out of it.

Some dolls go with the warning that the user shouldn’t use water and soap as it damages that doll’s specific blend of skin.

If you want to “refresh” your doll, some cornstarch or baby powder will do the trick.

A quick dusting will make it feel good as new.

You also want to warm up your doll if you want to keep things realistic.

You can do this by putting “her” under an electric warming blanket.

Well, that about covers everything you need to know.

I hope that by now, you feel more equipped to shop around and make the right choice.

Penis Extenders That Actually Work [JAN 2018]

Penis Extenders That Actually Work: No False Promises, All Science

The vast majority of guys aren’t exactly happy about what they see down there. It also certainly doesn’t help that when we watch porn, the thought that bigger is better is always being constantly being reinforced in our minds.

This is a very delicate topic because a lot of men don’t really like talking about what they think they can’t do anything about.

The others who are better endowed would simply just sit there and smile smugly.

Even though most women would assure us that it doesn’t matter much in the bedroom, we all have that sinking, quiet feeling that it actually does.

I had a girlfriend who said that she’d be happy with anything as long as it’s not a micropenis and she somehow expected to be treated like a saint.

What I can say about that is, a 4-incher won’t make a woman scream out of pleasure.

This is really the source of a lot of men’s insecurity.

Because of that, it has been a long-standing preoccupation to try and figure out what penis extenders actually works.

The whole thing is kind of shady, what with all the scam ads scattered all over the internet.

It’s hard to find the ones that would make a difference.

And guys, I think we’d all be on the same page and say that we wouldn’t say no to even an extra half inch.

That’s why there are many poor souls out there who have fallen prey to fake pills and pumps that promise to help them out in the size department.

I’ll offer some assurance here and say that there is no shame in that.

We’ve all been there.

We’ve all been disappointed time and time again with the same old lackluster “results.”

Well, I’ve done my research and I am ready to put my two cents into the matter.

Let’s do a bit of exploring here and see what our options are.

What makes a good penis extender?

Back in the old days, I guess the prevalent understanding was just to pull on the mothef***** and expect it to stay that way.

Let’s all heave a sigh of relief because technology has gotten a lot better since then.

In the modern world, these things are specially designed to do it the slow but sure way.

This, in my opinion, makes a world of difference and a lot more sense.

You can’t expect overnight results with something like this.

Why? The main goal here is tissue growth.

That’s right.

We’re now focusing on a cellular level.

None of that bizarre mumbo jumbo.

I suppose the concept hasn’t really changed all that much, but the modern man’s advantage is the access to products that are backed up by actual science.

So how do you do this?

Much like working out, the main thing that you have to remember if you’re considering going through this process is that it requires a lot of dedication.

It’s a regimen that you have to incorporate into your daily routine.

That means you have to put this thing on for a quarter of a whole day for at least half a year.

At least.

It’s not going to be pleasant because it’s not exactly the most natural feeling ever.

Even though you won’t feel that someone is constantly tugging at your junk because it’s adjusted in very small increments, at the end of the day, it’s still a device that you’re putting your penis into.

It can also go for a lot of money too.

Just like everything else, products that cost a lot more do better than the cheaper alternatives.

A lot more research goes into premium devices and they’re made out of the best materials.

But if you ask me, it’s better to save up and invest in a more premium device.

After all, this is your penis that we’re talking about here.

You want something that other guys swear by and isn’t made of some flimsy material that would just break on you after a couple days of use.

With all that in mind, let’s get into it and see what these products are all about to figure out which one you should get.

The JES Extender

Conscious about the curvature of your penis?

This one is meant to correct that.

The best thing I can say about the JES is that it’s considered a Class 1 medical device by the FDA.

That means rigorous and thorough testing.

I recommend this one if you just want to try the experience out because the results that you can get from this aren’t permanent.

Even though this might be bad news for those who mean serious business, this is great for those who feel iffy about permanent body modification.

It’s the most compact out of all devices and can be easily hidden under your clothes.

No one wants to know about this, am I right?

The SizeGenetics

Numbers first. This device promises an added 3 to 7 cm to your penis length in only 6 months.

What sets the SizeGenetics apart is their focus on comfort.

Their line of thought was: the more comfortable it is, the more likely you’re going to use.

The more you use it, the faster the results. That’s pretty straightforward.

Since no two penises are the same, with some angling over to the right or the left, this is the one that really took that into account.

You could set this device in a whopping 16 different configurations.

So if comfort is your main concern, this is the best choice for you.

The Male Edge Pro Penis Extender

Before you raise your eyebrows at its $225 price tag, let me tell you that this device promises an average of 29% penis growth.

That’s more than a quarter of your size.

Let that sink in for a bit.

Granted, they say that this is on average, so you can’t expect to get the same results for every individual, but I have to say this is pretty darn good for $225.

The reason I suggest that you go with the Pro (because there are basic and “extra” options) is because you’re probably going to want to get this one if you try the lower tier options. Buy it nice or buy it twice!

This is also the one that gets you permanent results.

It has ergonomic straps and top of the line materials, so you know you’re getting the best. These are folks who took this very seriously.

This is the one I tried out myself and I can tell you that it works like a charm. I can’t tell you how surprised I was, but I’m definitely happier for it.

BDSM Collars: A Complete Guide

 

bdsm collars: everything you ned to know

The topic of collaring comes up quite a bit in the online BDSM community and many people have different ideas and understandings of how collaring works and the importance behind it.

Some take it very lackadaisically while others may take it as seriously as an engagement or wedding.

If you have been in this community for a while, you have probably talked about collaring and maybe been collared yourself in the past!

If you are new, you might be wondering about what all the hubbub is about!

So, today I will be talking about collars – what different collars exist, when and how they are used, and of course why.

For some, this may be new information to take in.

For others, this may just be a brief refresher.

Regardless, I hope you find it helpful!

Types of Collars

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Collaring has a very rich and deep history, stemming all the way back to the leather community with regards to modern day BDSM, and even further back with regards to slave culture in general.

To many in a D/s relationship, the use of a collar is ceremonial and holds a great deal of significance and symbolism – showing the progression of a D/s relationship as time goes by and the bond between Dominant and submissive changes and grows.

To others, it may just be a tool to denote playtime.

Let’s start with the basics.

The Play Collar

A play collar is often also called a kitten collar and one you will often find associated with pet play, though that is not its only use.

It is considered to be a temporary and informal collar, often used in dungeons to show that the submissive wearing it belongs to a Dom for the duration of their scene, or is used in play that calls for a collar – pet play, slave and Master roleplay.

The point is, after the scene is done, the collar comes off.

It’s significance ends there.

Outside of the dungeon, it is usually put on at the beginning of play and removed at the end of the scene and aids in the submissive achieving a deeper and ore involved subspace.

They are usually made of leather or ribbon and can be easily fastened and unfastened.

Day Collar

day collar

A day collar is a discrete collar that is made to be worn so that the submissive can still wear a collar to signify their relationship status and possible ownership in public.

It is a safe and comfortable form of expression without being glaringly obvious.

Day collars tend to have a more secretive way of locking or just use a normal lobster clasp.

Some look like dainty, elegant necklaces while others might involve a small hidden lock or be made of sturdier hardware.

The main function is to be able to continue to wear a collar for the submissive and the Dominant to recognize while the rest of the world may not.

In some D/s expressions, though, especially in more strict Master and slave dynamics, if someone has received a full slave collar, it is never to be removed or replaced, even by a day collar for discretion.

Day collars can be made of just about anything

It is common to see ones maid of a light chain and incorporating the Ring of O in the design.

Protection Collar

While this collar does not mean ownership of a submissive, it is still to be recognized and respected.

This collar is given to a submissive by a Dominant who acts as a Dominant in a protective role.

The Dominant is not to be considered their Master or owner, however it ensures that others know, while the submissive wears this collar, they are not to be approached without permission and will likely be properly vetted by the Dominant who holds the collar.

This dynamic is one where the Dominant is looking out for the submissive and would vet other doms before allowing pursuit of the submissive.

Collar of Consideration

This collar is given when a relationship moves into something more serious than just casual play.

It is akin to serious dating in the vanilla world.

It is usually leather and can be removed for public appearances but is otherwise always to be worn when in the presence of the Dominant.

In this stage, the Dom and the submissive are learning more about each other, delving more deeply into their D/s relationship and how they express themselves, learning what the other needs from them in order for them to fulfill their respective duties sufficiently.

Consideration can be revoked if rules are broken or if either party is not getting what is agreed upon from their relationship.

The Training Collar

Not to be confused with a training collar specifically used for pet play, this level is considered a step up and would be akin to a promise or engagement ring in the vanilla world.

At this point there is often a contract or agreement as to what is expected of both parties.

This is the time when the submissive is being trained to be of service to their Dominant, which in turn means more structure and responsibility in the relationship for all parties involved.

These collars will not be removed just from a simple misstep.

It may be a leather collar or a metal collar that can be removed, again, when necessary (showers, medical emergencies, certain social and public events, etc), but should always be worn in the presence of the Dominant.

 

Slave/Formal Collar

slave formal collar

This collar is used when both patties are ready to take their relationship to the final level.

It exemplifies complete commitment and ownership and submission in a D/s relationship and is akin to a wedding ring.

Often the couple will have a collaring ceremony during which the collar is given, placed, and a renewable contract is signed.

This is a metal collar that is never to be removed, save for in a medical emergency.

It shows that the submissive has given everything of themselves over to their Dominant and trusts them to guide them through life.

It also shows that the Dominant is there to guide them through life, to love and support them and their growth.

This does not mean there is no autonomy in the relationship.

It does mean, however, that the submissive is fully owned, happy and willing to serve, and that the Dominant has taken the responsibility of lifting you up through your service.

 

Collaring in Online Communities

bdsm collar

With BDSM becoming more prevalent in mainstream communities, it is no wonder that there are now plenty of ways to meet Dominants and submissives online – whether in specific chat rooms or Reddits geared towards the topic of BDSM, image sites like Tumblr, roleplay sites like Elliquiy and F-List, or dating, meeting and community sites like Fetlife.

BDSM has extended its reach.

However, you may find in online D/s communities and relationships that you have a higher concentration of new entrants into the lifestyle, or those who are learned but toxic, and you may see a collar is quickly given and just as quickly removed.

The term given for this is the “Velcro Collar”.

It is meant to be a negative term and demeaning, though I believe it is also meant to increase awareness and understanding amongst those who engage in online D/s relationships that collaring is not something meant to be taken lightly; that D/s relationships require commitment, maturity and mutual respect.

 

Looking for a Collar?

BDSM Collar Shop

A relative newcomer on the scene, this collar shop has a pretty good selection of BDSM Collars, nipple clamps, and BDSM restraints (check them out here)

They ship directly from the supplier, which keeps their price low, but be prepared to wait 1-3 weeks for your collar to arrive.

That being said, there are some great bargains to be had, and they have custom collars available as well!

Etsy

Etsy is a great place in general to search for BDSM gear – though the price tag can be a bit steep as is expected with handmade custom niche items.

A quick search on Etsy can bring up a whole range of bespoke shops that can make you something unique, regardless of the level or type of collar.

The best ways to narrow your search are to know what you are looking for – type of collar, materials, etc. and have an idea of the money you want to spend.

Take a look around. You are bound to find something you will like!

 

Melted Kitten Creations

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(Image credit: Melted Kitten Creations on Instagram)

This shop specializes in very intricate and ornate kitten play/pet play collars.

They are sturdy enough to withstand playtime and a bit of tugging, but not meant to be roughly handled as they are a little more delicate.

Depending on how stubborn the pet or how rigorous the training and play, they might not be for you.

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(Image credit to Melted Kitten Creations on Instagram)

They have regular releases that are announced on Instagram and often open up custom slots for people to purchase.

They use Etsy as their selling platform.

The prices range from $40 USD and go up from there depending on the hardware used.

 

Restrained Grace

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(On the left, DDLG Pacifier Charm Collar – $55 USD. On the right, Kitten Play Charm Collar – $55 USD. Image credit to Restrained Grace.)

Home of some of the most beautiful and elegant play and day collars I have seen, Restrained Grace’s designs are simple but beautiful, fulfilling both form and function.

They use leather, metal chain and pearls to create stunning collars that can be used in a variety of BDSM sub genres – including pet play, DDLG, and slave dynamics.

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(Lockable Lavender Ring of O Pearl Day Collar – $110 USD. Image credit to Restrained Grace.)

The shop has both an Instagram and an online store front ( https://www.restrainedgrace.com/collections/new-1 ) that you can peruse and purchase from.

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(Rose Gold Steel Infinity Slave Collar – $75 USD./Image credit to Restrained Grace.)

Their prices are pretty decent and tend to range from $30-$120 USD depending on the materials used.

They also have some promoters on Instagram that provide discount codes you can use to save some money on your purchase.

Over all – they offer a wide range of collars that span multiple levels of commitment and different types of play.

 

Sub-Shop

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(SUB Black Leather Rhinestone Letter Collar – $19.95 USD. Image credit to sub-shop.com )

Sub-Shop is one of the most reliable one-stop bondage gear websites I have encountered.

Shipping times are impeccable and product quality has never let me down.

They have every manner of collar – rubber and PVC O-ring and D-ring collars, metal collars, corset posture collars, collars that are also gags, pet play collars and leash sets, slave collars – the only thing I haven’t seen is ribbon/kitten collars – but everything else seems to be accounted for.

Their prices are also very reasonable with a very wide range from $15 to $100 USD.

 

Amazon

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(Amazon.com – $157.00)

Generally speaking – you can find just about anything on Amazon.

A quick search for “bdsm collars” brought up several options – ranging from metal day collars like the one pictured above, to simpler leather or fake leather collars with O-rings, to collars with lettering and locks.

My advice when dealing with Amazon is always look at how many purchases have been made, the rating the item has receive and whether there are any reviews so you do not end up getting something you didn’t purchase.

Price ranges are the most dynamic on Amazon.

You could find something as cheap as a few dollars or as expensive as a couple hundred, depending on what you are looking for.

Again, however, there seems to be an underrepresentation of kitten play ribbon collars, so id this is what you are looking for, you are better off trying one of the other shops that offers this style of collar.

 

Eternity Collars

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(Limited Edition Titanium Eternity Collar in Radiance Finish – $205 USD.Image credit to Eternity Collars)

Eternity Collars is an online shop that is well known amongst the veterans in the community.

They are the go-to source for eternity collars (aka full slave collars).

They have expanded their product style to include lockable leather collars and discreet day collars, as well.

The collars are finely wrought, with a simple, elegant design, and made from quality leathers and metal

The price tag is certainly more hefty – ranging from $60-$300 USD – but it is well worth it.

These collars are made for commitments that are not to be taken lightly.

In Conclusion…

Regardless of whether your relationship is in person or long distance and online – and regardless of the level of commitment or the type of play – there is a collar for you.

Not everyone’s relationship or their expression of it looks the same – it is important to recognize and know the difference between individuality and abuse.

Always remember that a collar is what you make it and keep in mind the weight of importance and respect behind the symbol.

 

The Ultimate Lube Guide For Sex And Masturbation

 Creating The Slippery Situations You Want To Get Into

The majority of bad sexual encounters are mainly because things didn’t get wet enough.

There is nothing sadder than a dry hand job and, honestly, a dry vagina borders on questionable.

Similarly, lubrication is just as important when you’re rubbing or stroking one out.

This is why a big bottle of Jergens and a box of Kleenex is a staple on any guy’s bedside table.

The main reason why wetter is better is because you want to avoid chaffing.

The sexual organs are the most sensitive parts of the body and you want to make sure that everything is slippery and comfortable down there to get the most pleasure out of your more intimate times.

You can prevent all sorts of disasters from happening just by taking the easy step of adding lubrication before you get right down to business.
Let’s cover the basics first. Why is it important to use and get the right lube?

If we’re going to be totally honest here, everything isn’t always ideal when you want to get it on.

Sometimes, we need that extra help to get things going.

Here are the most usual situations where a tube of lube would definitely come in handy.

Reasons to use lube

Good old fashioned vaginal sex

Sometimes, even though she’s in the mood, her body says otherwise.

Don’t take it against your girlfriend.

How wet she gets down there doesn’t always correspond to how turned on she is.

In reality, the vagina’s natural lubrication depends a lot on her ovulation cycle.

I’m sure you’ve noticed before that there are certain times of the month when she’s wetter than usual, right?

The consistency of her juices could also vary.

It could get a little thick when she’s closer to her period.

The fact of the matter is, there are plenty of reasons why she could be dry from time to time and most of it has nothing to do with you.

She could be more stressed out than usual or she’s on antidepressants or it could be as simple as using regular bath soap down there.

Anyway, there is no shame in reaching for a bottle of lube when you want to fool around and things aren’t exactly going well down there.

And honestly, she’ll probably appreciate it more than you do.

Straight dudes will never know the discomfort of having something hard rammed into you when you’re just not ready for it.

At least that’s what my girlfriend says.

The more lubricated you both are, the better sex you’ll have and the more frequently it’ll probably happen too.

Knocking on the backdoor

The anal canal has no natural lubrication.

It’s not going to wet back there the way a vagina can.

And even though sticking things into the back door has been one of man’s longstanding kinks, the fact of the matter is, things aren’t supposed to go in your butt.

Before you start enjoying this activity (because both parties certainly can), it’s always going to be uncomfortable at least for the first few times.

You have to take your time and explore to get used to the sensation and learn how to enjoy it.

As a general rule, ass play should always come hand-in-hand with lubricants.

Trying to put things in there, even something as small as a finger or a prostate toy, will always be rough if you do it dry.

Jacking it

I wish someone would have told me that it’s better to go the natural route when it comes to masturbation the au natural way.

The skin of the penis is very, very delicate.

You don’t want to be putting any harsh chemicals on there that could be found in commercial lotions.

Olive or coconut oils are you best bets.

As you know, these are very good for your skin too.

Talk about dual purpose!

You probably figured out pretty early that self-pleasuring is easier and it feels better if you use some kind of lube.

Toy Joy

Whether you’re a guy or a girl, from Fleshlights to dildos, lube is an indispensable accompaniment to any of your favorite sex toys.

Most sex toys are made of medical-grade silicone and won’t pair well with anything other than water-based lubes.

Even though this is kind of a hassle to use because it dries pretty quickly and requires constant reapplication if you’re going at it for a while, this is still better for maintaining the materials of your sex toy.

Some toys allow for oils.

That could feel amazing too.

But I’ve never come across a toy that lubricates itself, so those two always go hand in hand.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself

Using lube can prevent you from getting all sorts of infections.

Now, how exactly do those two correlate?

Without proper lubrication, the friction will compromise your skin.

This is especially dangerous because you’re thrusting in a delicate area.

This will irritate your skin, open it up and make you more prone to contracting nasty diseases.

In addition to that, if you’re one of the more careful ones (and I do applaud you for that), it’s important to know that only water-based lubes are compatible with condoms.

Yes, most condoms come are lubed right out of the packet, but if you’re going to be at it for the whole night, you’re going to need more of that wet stuff.

Using any other kind of lubrication will compromise the materials of the condom, making it ineffective.

So whether you’re trying to avoid HIV or unexpectedly having to pay for child support, it is always better to be safe than sorry.

Going sensual

When you think massage, your mind automatically goes to sensual oils and lotions.

While this is all well and good, did you know that silicone-based lube is a way better alternative?

It makes for easier clean up and won’t leave you feeling like you’ve dipped yourself in a vat of lard.

There are also warming lubes that will add to relaxation and pain relief.

The best lube to use in any situation

Lube is not as basic anymore as you would think.

There are all sorts of different options available on the market right now that you can choose from and pair with a specific activity.

Kinds of lube

First, let’s explore what kinds of lubes there are so we can figure out what they can be good for.

Oil-based lubes

Oil lubes are usually more natural, so they’re less likely to contain harmful chemicals and preservatives.

Out of everything, I personally think this feels the best.

But it does have it drawbacks.

As I mentioned above, condoms, which are primarily made of latex, really don’t go together.

It weakens it and creates tiny holes that could allow your little guys to swim through.

It’s also important to note that oil-based lubes pose a higher risk for getting infections.

It’s thicker and it’s a bacteria magnet, so clean up is a must.

You should be concerned about getting this on your sheets too.

Oil stains are hard to remove.

Silicone-based lubes

Silicone-based lubes hardly have any water in them.

The best thing about silicone is that it’s hypoallergenic, so you don’t have to worry about breaking into hives when you use this one.

And since silicone is not absorbed by the skin, it just rests on the surface and they last longer, so there would be no need to keep reapplying it over and over again.

Water-based lube

This is safest off all lubes, but it dries significantly quicker than the rest.

They’re also not as slippery.

Think hand sanitizer gel.

The upside is that they’re the cheapest way to go and are the easiest to find and they’re compatible with virtually any sex toy.

You would think that water would be the best lubricant, but you would know that that’s not true if you’ve ever had sex in a pool.

Natural lube

If you want to go natural, there are several options that are available.

But remember, this type of lube is harder to find and generally more expensive.

They are specialty potions by “green” stores and those who advocate going organic.

Natural lubes more often than not plant-based like aloe gel, so this is good news for all you vegans out there.

There has also been a rise in sales for coconut oil.

The oil from this tropical fruit can do miracles for just about any part of your body from your hair to your metabolism.

And I have to say, it feels damn good too.

Petroleum-based lubes

This is better for him than it is for her.

Women should avoid this one because it changes the delicate pH of the vagina and that’s just yeast infection waiting to happen.

For guys, this is okay if you’re just using your hand to jerk off.

There’s always of jar of petroleum jelly in everyone’s bathroom cabinet.

Its consistency is pretty thick so a little goes a long way.

Hybrid lubes

If you can’t pick from these options, you can easily just get a combination of what you like.

Maybe you like the feeling of a water-based lube and the lasting quality of the silicone one.

These would be great to use with a partner, not so much with sex toys.

The best of the best

Now that the basics are out of the way, let’s get into the best options for every situation where you might need to lube up.

The best water-based lubricant

The problem with water-lube is that it usually doesn’t feel all that good.

The reason why they’re so popular is because they are the safest and the easiest to find.

Just go to a 7-eleven and there’s probably one or two brands right next to the condoms.

I’ve tested a lot of water-based lubes and found the best one.

It’s called the Shibari Premium Personal Lubricant. It’s a bit on the pricey side at $1.20 per ounce on Amazon, but trust me, it’s worth it.

If you go for the bigger size, you can save a lot more money and it comes in an easy-pump bottle, which is great because it’s more convenient.

The Shibari is my favorite because it doesn’t feel like any other water-based lubricant.

It’s silky and leaves the skin soft.

Rubbing dries out water-based lubes pretty quickly.

This is why you have to constantly reapply it.

Well, with the Shibari, it’s not necessary to do that as often.

This perfect for vaginal sex, playing with sex toys and it’s condom-safe.

The best oil-based lube

My favorite oil-based lube is the Coconu.

It’s vegan and it’s even edible.

It smells amazing, too, and it always brings back memories from my trip to Bali for some reason.

If you really want to go natural, jojoba oil is a good alternative as far as pure formulas go.

What’s great about jojoba oil is that is has antibacterial properties.

To practice safe anal sex, you want to go with something thick and slick, so oil-based is the best choice because it doesn’t dry as quickly.

The best silicone-based lube

Silicone-based lubes are the most expensive and you’ll have better luck finding them online than in actual stores.

That being said, it’s also the most long-lasting, which means you’re not going to need much of it at a time.

Just one or two pumps of this stuff and this will last you a while.

My favorite silicone-based lube is the Swiss Navy Premium.

It works just as well as any fancier brands, but it doesn’t cost as much.

The best lube for normal sex

The key thing here is to remember that you don’t want to mess with her vaginal pH, so oil-based lubes are a no-no right off the bat.

If you don’t keep this in mind, this makes her more likable to get infections.

We like to use HerSolution Gel.

The reason we like this so much is that not only is it water-based and won’t compromise the balance of her pH, it’s also a libido enhancer too.

I like to rub this all over her clitoris and pussy lips and she swears it’s a lot easier for her to achieve an orgasm with this product.

Apparently, there is a stimulant called L-Arganine that’s in this special blend that induces blood flow to area, making it more sensitive.

This is a great addition to foreplay.

You’re welcome, fellas.

The best desensitizing lube

If anal is something you really want to try and can’t get past the first hump, as it can be quite painful at first, a desensitizing lube could really help you out.

It numbs the area while doing what a normal lube would do.

My girl’s favorite desensitizing lube is the Cleanstream Relax.

It’s very effective and does the trick, even though at first, she was reluctant about it.
She told me that she felt no pain at all.

You’ll also find no traces of it after you take a shower.

It doesn’t leave some greasy residue like other desensitizing lube brands.

However, I think it’s important to note that this poses some risks.

If you numb the area, then you don’t really know what’s going down there.

For all you know, you could be doing some serious damage in your anal canal and you would have no idea that it’s even happening.

So keep that in mind if you’re considering this option.

The trick is just to make sure that she’s relaxed and she’s not tense down there.

If you’re planning an epic masturbation session and don’t think you can last that long, this could also be a solution to that.

You don’t want to use a lot of it and you don’t want to use it the entire time, but this could be a great help if you want to take a “break” and don’t exactly want to stop.

The best edible lubes

This is great for oral sex, but it’s more a novelty thing to bring into the bedroom and doesn’t actually have much use after the fact.

For some people, going down on someone just isn’t their favorite thing, so this could be good way to make it a lot more pleasant.

We see a lot of articles on Cosmo encouraging women to bring food into the bedroom.

I’ve never really liked that idea.

It sounds messy and unnecessary.

But if taste is something that you feel you might enjoy, there are so many flavored lubes out there that you can choose from.

My favorite one is a departure from the normal fruity route (because when we think flavored, we think fruit).

It’s called Wicked Aqua Mocha Java.

It’s water-based, so it’s easy to clean and won’t stain your sheets.

It honestly tastes and smells like you’re going down on a delectable mocha cake.

Fun.

The best warming lube

This option is really more for the dudes who are going solo.

I don’t find much use for this when I’m having sex with an actual woman because, given that hopefully you’re doing it with someone who is alive, it’s plenty warm down there to begin with.

However, if you’re playing with a toy or some sex doll, you might want to use something like this for the added realism.

This is actually very convenient and allows you to skip having to warm up your sex toy.

You don’t have to do anything else other than just the usual lube application before you go to town on it.

My favorite one is the classic KY Warming Jelly.

It’s a well-known brand and it does the job well.

It’s also compatible with any sex toy out there.

The best lube for sensitive skin

If you already know that your skin could develop some reactions to certain products, it would be smart to test out lubes on other places of your body other than your junk.

Down there is not where you want feel any burning or itching.

Thankfully, there are many hypoallergenic options out there for people whose skin is picky and sensitive.

My favorite brand is the Isabel Fay.

It’s the highest rated lube for sensitive skin out there and is made of all natural ingredients.

It’s safe for sex toys and condoms too.

I like this one because it hardly smells like anything at all and it is made in US.

That means it has been thoroughly tested in order for it to pass the Health Board.

This is a very safe choice if you’re looking for something that is completely paraben-free.

The best lube for sex toys

The first thing you need to consider is what your sex toy is made of.

By and large, water-based lubes are compatible with all sex toys across the board.

But that doesn’t mean you’re stuck with something water-based if that doesn’t exactly float your boat.

Silicone

For silicone toys, you’re pretty much stuck with water-based lubes because silicone essentially melts under any other kind of lube.

It would not be wise to damage something you paid good money for.

Just keep in mind that if it’s made of something soft or something meant to mimic real skin, always go for the water-based option.

My favorite water-based lube to use with sex toys is the Please Gel Lubricant.

It’s a light gel.

I usually go for that because I find that going with something thicker makes cumming a lot easier for me.

So if I’m playing with, say, a Fleshlight with an insane texture, it’s better for me to go with something with a thinner consistency so the feeling won’t get too intense.

It’s pretty long-lasting too, as far as water-based lubes go, and it will be good for about 15 minutes of pumping before you have to reapply it.

Metal

If you’re into the more kinky stuff like metal toys, you can use pretty much whatever lube you want.

Honestly, metal sex toys are not as intimidating as they are cracked out to be.

We associate BDSM and all that other hardcore stuff with that, but in reality, they’re the most luxurious sex toys around and can be enjoyed by anyone even if you think your sex life is pretty vanilla by most standards.

These are great if you want something that’s versatile (can be used by a guy or girl) and has a little weight to it.

They’re also the easiest to clean.

For our steel butt plugs and metal dildos, we usually use Uberlube.

This is some fancy stuff, but boy, does it feel amazing.

It’s silicone-based and extremely slick.

Like I said before, since it’s silicone-based, you only ever really need to apply it once.

It also comes in a super chic bottle that goes with the whole aesthetic of metal sex toys too.

If it’s that kind of night, we love using this pairing.

Glass

Like metal, you can use whatever lube you want with glass.

Glass sex toys are usually dildos or beads and butt plugs.

If you don’t like the idea of playing with glass (because who does?), I can assure you that the make of these things is very sturdy and you don’t have to worry about any sort of breakage.

The great thing about glass is that it’s non-porous.

That means it won’t absorb anything you put on it.

So you could go oil-based or even a hybrid lube.

My girlfriend’s favorite lube for her glass sex toys is the Sliquid Naturals Silver Silicone Lubricant.

That’s a mouthful.

Since it’s silicone-based, it’s perfect for ass play and for massages.

And because we like to live on the edge and use this in the shower, it’s not water-soluble, so it doesn’t wash off under running water.

Plastic

Plastic sex toys are usually dolls.

Yes, there are some plastic portable sex toys out there, but they’re usually knockoffs of the real thing.

I advise you to steer clear away from these products because they’re not made to pass any health standards here in the States.

But if you’re playing a doll or some plastic anal beads (harder plastic is fine), I have to recommend that you stick with something water-based just in case.

I also have to say that it wouldn’t be a good idea to use any kind of hybrid lubes, soI’d take out the Please Gel for this one as well.

The best lube for travelers

If you travel a lot and your sex toys are always packed away in your suitcase, then you’re going to need lube too.

None of us would be down for carrying big bottles of lube around and you can’t have more than 3.4 ounces in your carry-on.

Thankfully, you don’t have to tolerate just the regular, run of the mill, Durex lube in a packet.

I personally use Licx Gel Lube as it comes in very convenient travel-sized sachets.

It’s water-based so it sex toy compatible.

If you’re a bachelor and are looking to get some action over a weekend getaway, this is safe for condoms as well.

Last minute tips and my final word

As a general rule, when you’re looking for the right kind of lube, it’s best to avoid glycerin, propylene glycol, and chlorhexidine gluconate.

I’m sorry to go scientific all of a sudden, but you’ll thank me later for knowing what you shouldn’t put on your junk.

Overall, lube is there for pleasure, but it does have the added benefit of maintaining sexual health as well.

Happy humping!

How To Get The Best Fleshlight Experience

How To Use A Fleshlight

In this list, we’ll cover the basics and explore some ways you possibly haven’t tried before.

Let’s get to it.

First thing’s first.

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What’s a Fleshlight?

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This ingenious device was specifically designed to add boosted pleasure for men’s masturbation sessions.

It’s essentially a portable pussy (or ass, or mouth) that feels incredibly realistic and sometimes even better than the real thing, depending on your chosen sleeve texture.

The case could be either clear or opaque and it comes in a number of different sizes.

The most important thing to note about this case, aside from the fact that it’s made to look like a flashlight (hence the name) for discretion, is that is has two caps.

The cap in the front uncovers the opening of the Fleshlight and the other cap can be twisted off to adjust the intensity of the suction.

With the staggering amount of sleeves to choose from, you will never get bored.

These sleeves pretty much dictate how good your masturbation experience is going to be.

Some are more challenging that others and fit any fetish you could be into.

As an added bonus, Interactive Life Forms (ILF), the maker of the Fleshlight, have come up with line of units modeled after your favorite porn stars and cam girls for that personal touch.

 

Getting started

So you’ve joined the millions of satisfied Fleshlight owners all over the world and don’t know the first thing about how to use it or maybe you’ve been using it for quite some time and have run out of ideas on how to mix things up.

Well, don’t worry. I’ve got you covered.

Let’s say you’ve just taken your Fleshlight out of its packaging.

fleshlight go packaging

The first thing you need to do is remove the cardboard tube wedged inside the sleeve.

Don’t get too excited and stick your junk in there right away.

That’s an accident waiting to happen.

Now, with that out of the way, let’s get into prep.

 

Warm up the sleeve

warm up sleeve

If you’re going for a more realistic feel, then you’re going to want to warm up your sleeve to mimic the actual body temperature.

This isn’t really necessary and you don’t have to do it if you don’t feel like it, as the Fleshlight will likely warm up on its own as you use it.

That’s just how friction works.

But if you want to feel the warmth right off the bat, there are a number of ways you can do this.

This is especially good during those cold and lonely winter months when all you want to do is down a couple glasses of bourbon and stick your penis into something warm and comforting.

Sounds like a good time.

The sleeve warmer

fleshlight sleeve warmer

ILF has come up with their very own patented sleeve warmer as a Fleshlight accessory.

It is lightweight, sleek and just as portable as its counterpart.

What’s cool about it is that it can be charged via USB cable, so you can hook it up to your laptop and never have to go through the hassle of buying batteries for it.

There is not much to be said about the device itself because it’s really just rod attached to a sturdy base and it heats up.

There is not much to it, but it makes a world of difference.

You just slide your sleeve down onto the rod and it shouldn’t take more than five minutes for the warmer to make it nice and comfy.

But how warm are we talking here?

It can go up to 90 to 100 degrees Fahrenheit within five minutes, just the right temperature to make it feel like it’s a body.

According to the manual, it can reach up to 135 degrees, which I’m guessing is what it would feel like to have sex with someone with someone who has a high fever.

it's hot temperature

If that’s what you’re into, then whatever floats your boat.

That’s personally a little too warm for me, but it’s all about preference here.

Don’t be alarmed.

It’s never going to feel like your penis is on fire and it’s a definitely a step up from thrusting into something cold and slick.

That sensation reminds me a little too much of my more experimental days when I would masturbate with hollowed-out fruit and tube socks.

 

The old-fashioned way

fleshlight faucet heating

What ILF has always suggested even way before they came up with their warmer is that you soak the sleeve in warm water anywhere from 10 to 15 minutes.

This has always done the trick, but it can be a bit messy and it takes considerably longer.

Take note: DO NOT submerge your sleeve in boiling water or pop it in the microwave.

This will most definitely damage it and that’s about 80 bucks down the drain.

 

Bundle of joy

wrap up dog blanket

This was my personal favorite before getting the sleeve warmer.

I would wrap my sleeve in a blanket or towel and put it on my radiator for a few minutes.

This was great because I didn’t want it to get wet except with lube and when I’m cleaning it out with water.

Just always remember to wrap it something before you do this.

Putting it on a heater directly will also damage it.

If you’ve got one of those electrical warming blankets or a heating pad, those can be good too.

 

Lube up

always time for lubricant

This is very, very important.

You never want to skip this step if you want to avoid a nasty case of chafing.

Because of the Fleshlight’s secret patented combination of rubber polymers, they advise that you should only use water-based lubes.

This is a simple enough instruction to follow, to assure that your sleeve maintains its freshness and integrity.

Again, this is all about preference.

You might want to play around with different kinds of lube to get best masturbation experience.

You could experiment with thin, thick, warming or cooling lubricants.

I personally like to switch it up from time to time because I don’t want the same experience every single time I pleasure myself.

It also adds to the realism bit because I noticed that girls don’t exactly get wet the same way.

This is just a step that you should never be skipped because it protects your junk, so you can be sure that you won’t feel any kind of pain, discomfort or, worse, infections.

 

What’s your style?

Here is where we can get creative.

Men have always been imaginative when it comes to their masturbation techniques from humping sculptures to couch cushions.

That certainly doesn’t end with the Fleshlight.

Here is where you can experiment with different positions and play out your favorite fantasies.

If you can picture it, you can most likely do it.

 

Going old school

fallon masturbation

The Fleshlight is meant as a masturbation aid, so of course the mind automatically goes to just using it with your hand.

Even though this is the most rudimentary way of using it, this is always going to better than just jacking it with your bare hand.

Just find the most comfortable position, maybe even put on right porn clip and you’re good to go.

You can do this on your back or hold it firmly in front of you so you can slide yourself in.

This is great if you want to have full control of how it’s angled.

If you have a willing wife or girlfriend, it’s even better if someone else does this for you.

A trick up your sleeve

fleshlight just sleeve stoya

If the previous method has gotten old for you, one way to step it up is by losing the case and playing with just the sleeve.

You will lose the suction feature because it’s the case that does that, but you’ll be able to adjust the pressure manually by squeezing your sleeve in the right spots.

If you want to get the most out of your chosen texture, it’s good to explore it this way.

Now, ILF came up with their own “renewing powder,” which is actually just pure cornstarch.

It’s recommended that you powder your sleeve every once in a while to maintain the softness and silky texture it had right out of the box.

The reason I bring this up is because it’s advisable to dust your sleeve slightly before you use it to avoid slippage.

If you’re average sized or maybe even a little smaller, then you won’t get the full use of out the diverse range of textures ILF has come up with.

Sometimes, they reserve the really intense configurations for the more endowed and put these crazy textures right at the very end of the sleeve, which you’re not going to get to reach if you’re under 7 inches.

Well, this is perfect workaround to that.

Simply enter your sleeve from the other end to get in on the action.

You could switch up with textures for a more varied experience.

 

If you like to watch

fleshlight launchpad

ILF released the LaunchPAD and it delighted users everywhere because it took into account the obvious: if you’re using the Fleshlight, then you’re most likely watching porn.

It’s a rubber case that fits a 3rd or 4th generation iPad with Velcro straps at the base to fasten and secure your Fleshlight.

Since it’s made of rubber, it’s very easy to grip.

This is perfect for POV videos because this will better immerse you in the fantasy.

 

If you’re in a long distance relationship

onxy pearl

One of the major drawbacks of, say, being halfway across the world from your loved one is that you’re not going to get any action.

But with the recent innovations, cybersex has become a thing that a lot of couples resort to in order to maintain their intimacy.

The LaunchPAD will work for some good old fashioned Skype sex, but if you want to take it to the next level, Kiiroo has partnered with Fleshlight to create the Onyx and the Pearl.

All you need is a reliable internet connection and you can sync these two devices up to provide real time stimulation for both parties.

The amazing part about this setup is that anything one of you does, the other can feel. So if she takes in the Pearl in her pussy, your Onyx will tighten.

This is undeniably better than just having phone sex and playing with yourself with.

Knowing that it’s a shared experienced helps to reestablish the connection with your special someone.

 

If you want to go hands-free

Sometimes, in order to really get into the fantasy, you have to “forget” that you’re jerking yourself off.

The same concept applies to watching movies.

You know that what you’re watching is made up, but your brain automatically suspends your belief.

This way, you’ll be able to relate to the characters and be interested in the plot as if it was real.

Something like this can be achieved if you take your hands out of the equation.

Here are some ways you can have a totally hands-free experience.

These are great ways to practice if you want to incorporate your Fleshlight into your sex life with a partner because it frees up your hands to do other naughty things.

 

On a mission mount by Liberator

fleshlight liberator

I know it’s intimidating to get a piece of furniture that is specifically designed for masturbation, but you have the cash to spare, this is a great addition to any bedroom.

It’s pretty sizable, but it’s very light as it’s made with very firm foam.

The one end is slanted and there is a hole.

This is where your Fleshlight is meant to go into.

It fits very snugly in there and you don’t have to worry about it falling out.

Actually, it takes some force to get it in there.

The angle pretty much makes it feel like you’re having sex in the missionary position.

The good thing about this mount is that it’s extremely comfortable.

You can rest your elbows in the front and pump away.

To use it, all you have to do is position yourself on top of the mount.

Its width is only 9 inches, so it should fit nicely between your legs.

Of course at this point, it should be all lubed up.

You should be able to easily slide yourself in.
Now, you can imagine yourself in all sorts of scenarios.

You could use a mouth orifice paired with a texture that’s meant to simulate a blowjob and pretend that you’re going to town on someone’s face.

If you get bored with this, you can prop it on its side, spoon it and enter from the side.
Because it’s made of faux leather, cleanup is a breeze.

All you need is some all-purpose surface cleaner and a cloth to take care of your messes.

But perhaps the best thing about having one of these is that you can play out that threesome you’ve always wanted.

This only goes to show that using a Fleshlight could not only be a solo activity, but it could spice things up with a willing partner.

 

The shower mount

fleshlight shower mount

This mount will stick onto any smooth surface, preferably tiles.

That’s why they marketed this for some shower fun.

You can also even mount this on glass if you want to stick it onto your shower door.

It’s easy to adjust the angle, so you can get in any safe and comfortable position that you’d like.

Just like with regular shower sex, it can be quite the balancing act.

You have to careful not to slip, so non-slip mats and grips will help a lot.

The most important thing to remember when using your Fleshlight in the shower, make sure you still use water-based lube.

The SuperSkin (the amazing material the Fleshlight sleeves are made of) don’t do well with anything else.

I realize that since you’re going to be in a wet environment, you’d think oil would be the perfect lubrication, but this is really not a good idea.

It will ruin your sleeve.

DO NOT use soap. Your penis will not be happy about it either.

So stick to something water-based even though you’ll probably have to use a lot of it.

The Launch

fleshlight launch stamina pack

This is another collaboration with Kiiroo and probably my favorite Fleshlight accessory.

You would think that this one is for the lazy, but it requires quite a bit of prep.

First, you have to make sure that the device is fully charged and you might want to have a lineup of raunchy videos on Pornhub ready.

Setting up the device itself is pretty simple.

Just attach your Fleshlight by doing a twisting clockwise motion and wait until you hear a nice little click.

That means you’re good to go.

Lube it up and slide on in.

Here is the fun part.

With the Launch, there are two modes: manual and interactive.

If you want to have full control, then go the manual route.

This allows you to set how fast and how long the strokes are.

The controls are intuitive and makes for a very relaxed experience.

I have got to tell you that this thing is a beast. Because it’s a machine, it’ll never tire (that is, until its battery runs out).

The interactive mode, on the other hand, takes the porn-watching experience to the next level.

Pornhub collated their own special content specifically for this device, so you won’t have to worry about running out of new material.

What’s cool about this is that the movement of the Launch is synced very accurately with these videos.

Whatever is happening in the video, you will feel in real life perfectly timed along with it.

Taking it a step further, this device is also VR ready.

I don’t know about you, but when I first heard about this device, I thought we’d arrived in the future.

Use things you have in the house

It doesn’t matter if you can’t afford these Fleshlights accessories just yet.

You can use things that are already lying around in your home.

Another use for your bed

bed party hard

This is one of the sturdier options.

All you have to do is lift your mattress up slightly and wedge your Fleshlight in between that and the box spring or mattress base.

Kneel in front of your bed and thrust in and out to your heart’s content.

This is perfect for replicating doggy-style sex.

And since your bed is a heavy piece of furniture, you don’t have to worry about your Fleshlight going askew.

You can plow the living daylight out it and it will stay put.

Another great thing about this method is that you can put your laptop, tablet, magazine or whatever it is you’re into right in front of you for easy access.

The pillow, towel and couch cushion method

pillow method

An even simpler way to use your Fleshlight is to just stick it in between two pillows and fasten them together with a belt to secure your setup.

This is great if you want to try all sorts of positions, particularly the cowgirl.

Just hug the pillows while on your back and thrust upwards.

You can also wrap a bath towel around it for some height (the angle is way too low if you’re just going to set it on the bed).

This doesn’t take any time at all.

This one is a classic: stick it in between couch cushions.

That is if you have the luxury of being able to masturbate in your living room without having to worry if someone is going to walk in on you.

On your desk

duct tape

The only thing you will need for this is some heavy duty duct tape.

Just secure your Fleshlight in place and be careful not to get cum on your keyboard.

The advantage to this is that your computer is probably on your desk, right?

You can watch your favorite NSFW videos as you use it.

If you think this is lame and you’re pretty handy anyway, take a trip to the hardware store or look around on Amazon and buy a durable clamp.

After this, you can pretty much clamp it onto anything else.

Take your penis for a walk

shoes walking gif

This is as straightforward as it can get.

Just grab any shoe, unlace it and shove your Fleshlight in there.

Tighten the laces to secure it place, lube up, and you’re good to go.

Since the shoe is planted on the floor, this can take a lot of thrusting.

As far as angles go, this is what feels most like having sex in the missionary position.

Honestly, this can be quite the workout, but I’m sure we can all agree that the payoff is worth it.

Get someone else to do it for you

shall we have sex gif

If you can’t be bothered to do it yourself and if you’re lucky enough to have a willing partner, then get him/her to do it for you.

When most people think about the Fleshlight, they automatically think that it’s a solo activity.

The truth is, this is just another one of those sex toys that you can bring into your bedroom to spice up your sex life with a partner.

Trust me, your partner will appreciate it because he/she will feel included in your fantasy.

This might just seem like an excuse to lay back and watch, but experimenting in the bedroom reinforces intimacy and brings the two (or more) of you closer.

This is also a chance to safely play out your ménage à trois fantasies.

The portable pussy is a lot less threatening than an actual person.

If you don’t have anyone special in your life just yet, you could line up different Fleshlights, perhaps the pussy, ass and mouth options, and imagine the dream threesome you’ve had since you were 17.

Not for the faint-hearted

It sucks when you build up the tolerance for something as pleasurable as an orgasm, but the danger is real and it happens to the best of us.

You can easily retrain yourself and hold off on the masturbation for a while.

The concept is very similar to intermittent fasting.

But if you absolutely have to come as frequently as you do now to de-stress or for whatever reason, these are the options for you.

The super sucker

If you’re all about suction, then this technique is perfect for you.

Lose the case and get a mason jar.

mason jar sucker

You want something big enough to house your sleeve, so it’s most ideal to use a 2-pint jar.

It’s crucial that you use glass, but just be extra careful.

Glass shards and your penis are not a good mix and could lead to a disaster.

Now, the setup. It’s pretty straightforward.

Just put the sleeve in the mason jar as if you were using the normal Fleshlight case.

Find a stiff straw and wedge it in between the rim of the jar and the Fleshlight orifice.

You can then lube it up and put your penis in.

It’s important that your first penetration is done slowly.

Once you’re all the way in, carefully slide the straw out.

This creates pressure inside the jar.

Technique is key here.

If you want something that will suck the living daylight out of you, just pull out as far as you can.

This creates a vacuum.

If it ever gets too intense, just wiggle your finger where the straw used to be to introduce some air inside.

Good vibrations

ILF released their own vibrating option for those who need that extra stimulation.

So if you’re all about sticking to the Fleshlight brand, the Vibro is a cool thing to get.

fleshlight vibro

Out of the box, you are given three vibrating battery operated pellets that you can slip into the sleeve, which create a wonderful vibration that will blow your mind.

Pair it with a challenging sleeve and you might not ever want to leave your bedroom.

If you want to go off-brand, these “bullet” vibrators are available pretty much anywhere.

You can just scour Amazon and find the right size and intensity.

This will definitely save you a couple of dollars too.

The outside of the sleeve have long ridges.

All you have to do is line up the bullets in between these flaps.

You can choose how many bullets you want to put in there depending on how intense you want the vibration to be.

There is a good solution if you think you’re desensitized to a normal Fleshlight and need that extra zing in order to cum.

Conclusion

sex loop

These are just some of the more popular ways to use your Fleshlight.

But remember, the only limit is your imagination.

It’s not a surprise that masturbation continues to be a way for men to exercise their creativity.

Just stay safe, stay clean, and have fun!

How To Make Your Own Pocket Pussy

An Arts and Crafts Project You Won’t Want To Throw Away

There are so many products out there that are marketed as “Pocket Pussies.”

From the famed Fleshlight to the lesser known fake asses by Cyberskin, these could cost you a pretty penny.

Don’t you worry.

Times are hard and even though you don’t even have the 20 bucks to spare, there are things that are probably lying around in your house that you could use to fashion your very own fake pussy.

Guys have always been known to let their creativity fly when it comes to masturbation.

We take it very seriously, after all.

Why even make a pocket pussy?

Obviously, in order to enhance the masturbation experience, you want something that simulates how the real thing feels.

And you want this thing to be portable and easy to hide because you wouldn’t want your kinks on display for your mom or your girlfriend to see.

Overall, it just makes for a more enjoyable time than just using your hand to jack off.

I don’t know if it’s just my age or I do it way too often, but I’ve since lost my liking for masturbating the old fashioned way.

I guess once you’ve experienced something better, it’s hard to justify why you ever want to go back to the most natural way of doing it.

That being said, sometimes a pocket pussy could be a wildly different experience from fucking an actual vagina.

You could experiment with different textures and levels of suction that no pussy, mouth or ass could ever replicate.

This is not say that this is always going to be better than having sex with a person.

That reaches levels that you can’t achieve on your own.

Nothing will ever replace the connection and the intimacy you can have with your partner.

But as far going solo goes, it’s very possible to up your game and break up with your hand once and for all (because, honestly, it’s getting a little weird).

You can find out what texture works best for you.

I also think that it’s important to note that having a pocket pussy has other benefits besides the pleasure that you get from it.

Improve Your Stamina

The most practical one has got to be that it can improve your stamina.

Since it feels exponentially better than just using your hand, it can be very challenging to some guys who don’t last long in bed.

I don’t know about you, but I consider it a failure if my girl isn’t fully satisfied after we fool around.

It breaks my heart little, seeing that look of disappointment on her face when I just blew a few pumps a little too soon.
This is a great remedy for that.

With a pocket pussy, you can settle down, relax, and take your time.

Like Going To The Gym, But For Your Cock

The concept is very similar to working out.

The more you exercise a muscle, the more sets of reps you can do.

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure this out.

Just keep going at it until you feel like you’re going to cum, hold off on it, take a break for a few moments, and keep going.

This is why using a pocket pussy isn’t exactly the most self-serving thing you can do.

You can tell your girlfriend that if she ever sees it on your bed side table.

I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t be ticked off for that reason.

She might even thank you for it.

If you don’t have anyone special in your life just yet, having a couple of pocket pussies can help enhance your fantasies.

Fancy having an imaginary ménage à trois? Make three pocket pussies.

Honestly, this just adds another dimension to your whole masturbation experience.

Bring Your Fantasies To Life

Are you into POV porn? This is a way to step that up.

I don’t know about you, but I personally find that it takes away from the fantasy when I just use my hand.

It’s helpful to have a hands-free experience, and we’ll get to that later in this list.

If you do have a partner, this is just another one those things you can bring into the bedroom.

Sex toys aren’t just made for solo play, you can also incorporate them into your sex life.

Another orifice can’t hurt or you maybe you guys just want to play around without having vaginal or anal sex.

Whatever the reason may be, this is the perfect tool to use when things are getting a little stale under the sheets.

Initial instructions

Hold your horses.

Before we get into making you a pocket pussy (or a couple), we have to get prep out of the way.

Lube up

Naturally, your pocket pussy will not be able to get wet just like a real vagina would.

I can’t stress this enough. You need to use some kind of lubrication.

First of all, it makes the whole experience feel good. That’s the obvious bit.

But not only will this easily let you slip your junk in and out of your pocket pussy, it will make a world of difference when it comes to safety.

By using lube, you don’t have to worry about the effects of too much friction.

The skin of your penis is very delicate.

You don’t want to get any scrapes or cuts down there.

That’s the easiest way to get an infection, burns and rashes.

Warm it up

If you’re going for something more on the realistic side, then it’s best to heat things up.

Thrusting yourself into something cold and slimy is going to be weird. No one’s going to enjoy feeling like that.

There are many ways you can warm up your pocket pussies, and here they are.

  1. You might not even have to warm up the thing itself, you could just use a warming lube.
  2. Wrap it in an electric warming blanket.
  3. Wrap it in a towel that has been soaked in hot water or if water won’t compromise the build of your pocket pussy (it doesn’t have tape or glue), take it to your tub with you as you enjoy a warm bath.
  4.  You can microwave your pocket pussy, but make sure you follow the simple microwave rules. No metals and nothing very wet. How the microwave works is that it heats up liquid molecules. That’s why microwaving something very dry, like a chip, won’t heat it up as much as something more dense.
  5. Leave it beside a window where it get direct sunlight, right next to your boiler or on top a heater.

Now that’s out of the way, let’s get into some ways you can construct your own pocket pussy and start having some fun.

Veg out

This is old school.

Guys have been sticking it into fruits and vegetables for centuries, even cooked food, for that matter.

Remember that classic scene from American Pie?

Well, this is a very simple option and it doesn’t take much materials at all.

Stuff you need:

1. A long vegetable that your penis will fit into like a zucchini, eggplant or cucumber. Anything will do as long as it’s straight.

2. A condom

3. A couple of rubber bands

4. A roll of duct tape

5. A sharp knife

Right. Got everything you need?

First, cut the end of your vegetable.

This is where you’re going to insert your penis.

Next, cut it in half, lengthwise.

Remove the seeds.

You’re essentially making a case for your penis.

Don’t forget to leave some flesh so it’s not all skin.

You don’t want the vegetable to lose its sturdiness.

Now, wear your condom and put your penis on one of the halves of the vegetable.

Make sure it fits snugly in there.

Make some adjustments if needed.
If you’re happy with the fit, close her on up and put the other half on top.

Your penis should be enclosed by both sides now.
Next, use the rubber bands to create some tension.

When it’s tight enough to your liking, set it by wrapping the whole thing in duct tape.

Slide yourself out, making sure that you’re holding the rim of the condom so you won’t lose it inside.

Fold it over the opening and fasten it with more tape or rubber bands.
Then you’re good to go.

Pour some lube in there and slide your penis in.

Shiver me Pringles

This is my favorite and you’ll like this one if you’re on the longer side.

And if you ask me, this takes recycling to a whole other level.

You’ll never look at a can of Pringles the same way again.

Stuff you need:
1. An empty tube of Pringles
2. Two sponges (the kind that doesn’t have the scouring pad)
3. A roll of duct tape
4. A medium to large latex glove
5. A sharp knife

Ready?

First, take off the lid.

Easy as pie.

Next, put one sponge on flat surface, place the glove on top of that, and put the other sponge on top.

You should have a glove sandwich by now.

After that, pull the opening where you hand is supposed to go so that it hangs off in between the sponges.

Shove the whole thing inside the Pringles tube.

Make sure that are no gaps and the sponges fill the whole opening out.

Next, take the cuff of the glove and spread it apart.

Carefully pull it back over the opening of the Pringles tube.

You want to make sure that everything is covered at this point.

You won’t be able to see the sponge anymore if you’ve done it correctly.

All you’ll see is a tight slit where the two sponges meet.

For some weight, you can fill the can with some rice or beans before you do all this.

That is if you want something with a little heft to it.

The Towel Method

This is perfect if you’re new to this and you don’t have a ton of materials available or the time to spare.

Stuff you need:
1. A hand towel
2. A medium to large latex glove
3. A belt or rubber bands

Pretty simple, right?

The first thing you need to do is fold the towel two times.

Rest the glove on top of the towel with the opening hanging off to the side.

This is important.

You don’t want to lose the cuff in there.

Now, roll it around the glove very carefully.

Make sure it’s nice and tight, so it will feel like you’re actually fucking something when it’s done.

When you’ve got the tightness that you want down, fasten it with a belt or some rubber bands to keep it from unfolding.

Add more rubber bands if you want it to be even tighter.

Peel back the cuff of the glove back so that it hides the edge of the towel.

And you’re done.

Lube it up and go to town.

Silicone Pocket Pussy

This is for the guys who are little handier, have the patience to wait, and looking to make something less disposable.
Stuff you need:
1. A candle that is bigger than your penis in both length and girth
2. A marker
3. A sharp knife
4. Silicone sealant (You can find this in any hardware store and it’s very cheap. Cheaper than a Fleshlight, that’s for sure.)

First, put your penis against the candle and draw around it with the marker.

Done? Put your penis away.

Next, draw inside the shape and trace one that is 25% smaller than your actual penis.

Now, here comes the precarious part.

Carve off the excess wax.

Start off by cutting lengthwise until you get a nice rectangular block.

What you’re making is a slightly smaller replica or your penis, so smooth it out and make it as penis-like as possible.

You want it a little smaller to get that tightness.
When you’re happy with the “dildo,” it’s time to coat it with the silicone sealant.

You want it to be a little thick, so go for about half an inch.

Then all you have to do is wait a couple of weeks (yes, weeks. I told you that you’d need patience for this!) until the silicone is completely set.

Slide out the candle and you’re done.

If it yields a product that you’re happy with, you might want to keep the candle so you can reuse it for another pocket pussy.

If not, then chuck it and try your hand at it again.

This might need some trial and error if you’re not that skilled.

The Ultimate Fleshlight Guide [UPDATED JAN 2019]

Ultimate Fleshlight Guide: Exploring the Ins and Outs (Pun Intended) of the Famed Pocket Pussy

Introduction

what's a fleshlight image

The Fleshlight is one of man’s more ingenious inventions since the wheel.

It seriously boggles my mind why it took so long, considering that we’ve been pretty much sticking it in anything from couch cushions to hollowed-out fruit.

If you’ve been living under a rock or having a very faithful love affair with good old righty (or lefty) and have no clue what I’m talking about, let me fill you in on what should be in your bedside drawer.

What Is A Fleshlight?

The fleshlight looks what it sounds like – a flashlight.

It was designed by a guy named Steve Shubin, but honestly, it sure sounds like a bunch of dudes came up with this idea during an epic weed sesh.

This man deserves a medal.

medal man

It looks innocent enough and wouldn’t warrant a second glance, so any wives or moms snooping around wouldn’t even have a clue.

The Fleshlight is as simple as it can get.

It’s still pretty analog, but boy does it feel so much better than just jerking off with your hand.

It’s an encased sleeve with caps you twist off from both ends.

The wider end reveals the opening where you put your wang into and the other end adjusts the suction.

This is pretty great if you’re looking to up your stamina.

I mean, let’s face it. Some dudes last longer than others and it’s really all about preference here.

Special Sleeve

fleshlight just sleeve stoya

The manufacturer won’t really disclose what the sleeve is made of because it’s patented.

They call it the Superskin (and I must say it’s aptly named), which they say is a special blend of rubber polymers and mineral oil for that more realistic feel.

It’s non-toxic and doesn’t have that weird chemical smell so it doesn’t really take you away from the fantasy if you can get over the fact that you’re banging a portable pussy.

Knockoffs are usually made of medical-grade silicone or latex, which can be a hit or miss because some of them can be too hard and can smell a little weird.

You’d know about it if you dabbled in those blow up dolls that were all the rage in the ‘80s.

blow up sex doll

They feel exactly how you would imagine it – like fucking an inflatable pool.

Have It Your Way

fleshlight sleeve options

There are also many different kinds of configurations for the sleeve.

You can buy these separately, so you don’t have to have a suspicious number of “flashlights” lying around, looking like you’ve got the whole town covered for the next blackout.

These configurations have quirky, clever names like the Texas Tornado or the Bump N Grind.

You can also customize your sleeve however way you want, but they’re all made of the same soft, lifelike material.

And the folks over Interactive Life Forms don’t discriminate.

Your little buddy could be any size and it would fit perfectly into any sleeve.

You can’t say that about all women, if you know what I mean.

If you’ve never heard about this, I don’t where you’ve been.

The Fleshlight pretty much took the States by storm when it was first released in the late ‘90s.

Men had a more sophisticated option other than jacking it with their hand with the introduction of this nifty invention.

I don’t know why they didn’t come out with sooner.

Maybe the technology just wasn’t there.

But it had to be done and I think all the guys are happier for it.

But why even get a Fleshlight?

fallon masturbation

So you fancy yourself a creative masturbator and don’t think you need this in your life?

Who knows? That may very well be the case.

But nothing feels as good as something that was specifically designed to give you pleasure.

They had meetings about this stuff.

Experiments were done.

Do you seriously think that this is just going to be as good as humping your mattress?

Think again.

Here are some of the reasons why the Fleshlight is the greatest.

I honestly can’t contain my excitement about this.

You get what you want every single time

we all gonna get laid

The first thing that ought to mention is that you have three choices right off the bat.

You can get the vaginal, anal or oral versions.

Hell, get all three.

So whatever it is your “thing” might be, there is something for you.

Granted, these orifices don’t look like the real thing.

They didn’t exactly make it look realistic and, honestly, I think most guys would prefer it that way.

It’s a little creepy to have a portable severed realistic-looking vagina in your room.

They really weren’t going for a visual experience and that’s fine.

The fun part is still up to your imagination or you could just go on good old reliable PornHub.

However, if you’re a real stickler for realism, then I’m happy to tell you that they’ve come up with a series of Fleshlights that are modeled after your favorite porn stars and cam girls.

fleshlight sales by pornstarThey made a mold out of the girls’ parts and made the openings of their corresponding Fleshlight model look freakishly the same down to the last little flap or crevice.

So if you’ve wondered what a night (or several nights, for that matter) with Stoya or Tori Black would feel like, then this is just about as close as you can get to the real thing.

And since I’m guessing that no one is going to be involved in your masturbation sessions other than yourself, you can use jack it pretty much any time you want.

No one is going to say no.

It’s guaranteed to be safe

safety first

The Fleshlight is a pretty big, notable brand now.

That means a lot of people (including myself) swear by their products and the company takes people’s safety very seriously.

Of course, no one wants a lawsuit filed against them.

By going the classic route and getting the OG instead of the cheaper knockoffs, you will be assured that you are getting the best quality materials that feel the best, are very safe for your skin and are easy to clean.

You don’t want to stick your thing into anything cheap and poorly made.

Since this is a widely known commercial product, it has undergone and passed many different standardized tests to make sure no one wakes up with a strange rash.

It’s your little secret

fleshlight secret

It’s pretty obvious that since they made this thing as innocent-looking as possible, discreteness was one of their main concerns.

You don’t have to worry about being shipped a human-shaped package either.

I’m sure you don’t want the UPS guy to know how kinky you are.

This also won’t show up on your credit card bill as a blaring sex toy purchase.

They’ve got you covered. It will be all in a hush-hush and you definitely won’t get flack for this.

It’ll help if things are getting stale

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Even though when we think Fleshlight, we automatically think solo, this doesn’t mean that you can’t bring this toy into the bedroom to spice things up with your partner.

Using sex toys with a partner and keeping things exciting by playing and discovering each other’s kinks and hidden pleasure spots would strengthen any relationship.

So you could make the argument that this isn’t such a selfish purchase.

Ladies, if you’re hesitant about getting your man a Fleshlight or just letting him get one for himself, I can assure you that this is no substitute for the real thing.

Nothing really beats the sensation of being with an actual person, so you should never be threatened by an object.

But with that said, it’s still pretty fun.

Believe me, he’ll get a kick out of it if you participate.

This will reassure him and make him feel that it’s safe to share his desires with you.

A lot of focus is given to the woman’s orgasm because it’s harder to achieve.

So if you’ve got a good guy on your arm, you probably get all the attention and all the cool new toys.

Adding a Fleshlight to the mix will let him know that his pleasure is important too.

Improving your stamina

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Clearly, using a Fleshlight is nothing like doing it with another person apart from the sensation.

You could go at any pace you want. You can adjust the suction however way you want.

What I’m getting at is, this is all about your pleasure.

There is nothing and no one else to consider.

You can take your own sweet time and train yourself to last longer.

The fleshlight feels so good, you would want to prolong using it as much as possible.

Now, if you have trouble with premature ejaculation, this is a good way to practice.

If you’re good in bed, it’s always still good for edging.

You won’t believe how intense your orgasms can get when using this product.

Either way, it’s always good to up your endurance.

How do you use a Fleshlight?

Getting warmer?

The truth is, your imagination is the limit.

If you can picture it, you can do it.

But here are some of the more popular and basic techniques on how guys use the Fleshlight.

Make it wet

always time for lubricant

To simulate real sex as much as possible, you want to be all lubed up before you penetrate the sleeve.

Chafing in any sort of scenario is never a good feeling.

The unit comes with a couple of packets of sample lubes that they offer.

Some of these have a warming or cooling effect.

You’ll be able to try them out to see what you prefer.

Put some on your junk and inside the sleeve as well.

You could tease yourself by rubbing the tip of your penis against the opening.

Once you get hard, you’ll be able to slide right in easily.

Warm it up

warm up sleeve

Some guys like to heat up their sleeve before going to town on it.

I personally like to do this because it adds to the fantasy.

The sleeve pretty much warms up on its own as you keep thrusting into it.

That’s just how friction works.

But if you want it warm right away, there is a fairly simple solution to that.

Just dip the sleeve in warm water for 2-5 minutes and it’s good to go.

If you’re a fancy lad and have the cash to spare, ILF offers a sleeve warmer.

This is way faster than the warm water method and you can charge it via USB cable.

This is also guaranteed to not damage your Fleshlight at all.

It looks pretty sleek and is a great accessory to have.

Another interesting way I’ve found is wrapping the sleeve in a towel and putting it on my radiator.

This will take a bit more time, but it gets the job done.

Just make sure you wrap it in a towel first and don’t put it directly on there.

And never, never get any clever ideas about putting it in a microwave.

Positioning is key

Back to basics

The simplest way to use a Fleshlight is exactly the same way you usually jack off.

Only this time, you’ll be using the sleeve.

You could be on your back or sitting down, whatever works for you.

Then slide it up and down your shaft as you normally would.

Get creative

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This is my personal favorite.

I usually wedge my Fleshlight in between my mattress and the base of the bed.

I kneel down in front of it and thrust away.

This very much feels like you’re doing it doggy-style.

This way, it feels more like a simulation of the act itself and it doesn’t seem like I’m just masturbating.

You could also stick in between couch cushions, some pillows or even a sneaker.

Get on top of it and pleasure yourself missionary style.

If you want something more legit and don’t have to explain to anyone why you have sex furniture, there is a mount that is specially made for the Fleshlight for the best hands-free experience made by Liberator.

It fits perfectly between your legs and once you’ve inserted yourself in, you can rest your elbows on the front and thrust away.

If this gets boring, you could spoon it and slide yourself in from the side.

It’s lightweight and covered with pleather, so that means it’s easy to clean up and it’s not a pain to move it to any room you want.

And since it’s hands-free, your hands and mouth are free if you are going to want to pleasure someone else while you’re pleasuring yourself.

This is great for playing out a threesome fantasy with a partner.

Another option is to get a suction cup for the base of the Fleshlight.

You could stick it on a smooth surface like glass or tiles and play with it while you’re in the shower.

There is also something called the Launchpad, which is essentially a base for your iPad and Fleshlight.

fleshlight launchpad

It’s made of rubber so it’s easy to grip.

This is perfect if you’re watching POV videos for the extra realism or you’re just having good old fashioned Skype sex.

Some dudes take it to the next level by treating it as an attachment.

I really get a kick out of seeing these guys’ subtle innovations.

There are automatic milking machines that pump for you that could make it seem like you’re getting a blowjob or being ridden.

You could also make it so it’s spinning as you thrust in and out of it. Like I said before, if you can think it, you can make it happen.

So which one should I get?

Do you feel like you’re sold on this yet?

Well, selecting your Fleshlight is a little more complicated that coming up with your coffee order.

However, it’s much more fun and a lot more rewarding.

First thing’s first, you have got to ask yourself a couple of simple questions.

What’s your size?

Knowing (and admitting) the size of your penis is very important when it comes to selecting sleeves.

It’s also worth nothing whether your circumcised or not.

There would be no point in choosing a sleeve that varies all the way through if you’re not going to be able to reach it anyway.

Also, knowing your girth can save you a lot of discomfort.

You don’t want anything too tight because some men report to have bruising after having tried sticking it in a Fleshlight that’s not the right size.

What do you like?

fleshlight orifice options

You could be a pussy, mouth or ass man.

There are available options for all three.

It doesn’t matter much because this doesn’t affect the build of the insert.

You can definitely mix and match.

But it helps to keep the fantasy alive by pairing the outer part of the orifice with a sleeve that simulates that particular orifice.

Maybe you’d like lips for the added stimulation and a sleeve that mimics the throat texture.

How long do you last and would you like to improve?

stamina training unit

I’m going to be real with you and confess that I struggled with premature ejaculation.

After about ten pumps, I already feel like I’m going to blow.

But after using the Fleshlight for quite a while now, my stamina has improved significantly.

I’ve tried textures that are crazier than the usual ridges in an actual vaginal canal and have slowly but surely trained myself to last longer.

Honestly, the concept I’ve applied here is very similar to the one I apply when working out.

After some time, you’ll find it easy to do multiple sets with a pair of weights.

This is how you know you’re ready for some heavier ones.

Similarly, when I feel that a relatively simpler texture is getting easy for me, I just replace it with a different one that’s tighter, has more bumps and ridges.

It’s a challenge I never get tired of overcoming and my girlfriend has definitely benefited from this too.

Do you have any geeky fetishes or have a thing for a popular porn star?

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Again, this all boils down to preference.

It’s a nice extra bonus to be able to pick the opening of your Fleshlight, if you ask me.

This adds to its overall visual appeal. If you’ve ever had a fantasy with alien interspecies sex, there is a blue skin that is available.

Star Wars fans rejoice

. Now, you can bang the hot Twi’lek of your dreams.

They really considered what everyone might like.

If you’re into more futuristic stuff, you could go for the cyborg pussy.

Fancy getting a blowjob from a vampire?

There is a vampire mouth option available complete with fangs (they won’t hurt).

If that isn’t really your thing, you could choose from a number of porn stars from their Girls line.

These Fleshlights are molded out of their orifices with their signature on the side for a more personal touch.

Choosing the right texture

Okay, you’re ready to join the more satisfied population of men on the planet.

Good on you.

I’ve done my research (as far as jobs go, mine rules) and I’ll give you the lowdown on all the textures available right now.

For the rookie

You don’t want to get too carried away and overreach when it comes to your first Fleshlight.

You can just breeze through your Fleshlight journey.

You want to enjoy it.

So it’s best to start off with something milder and more similar to the real thing.

You can then level up from there once you get used to the feeling.

If you have more or less the average sized penis, here are the best choices for you.

The Mini Lotus

fleshlight mini lotus sleeve

The mini lotus in uncomplicated and feels very much like the actual thing.

This is a great beginner model because it’s the easiest feeling to get used to.

This is also the perfect choice if you’re a bit on the shorter side.

There are four notches that are very close to the opening that feel incredibly lifelike.

The Kendra Sutherland Angel

kendra sutherland angel fleshlight

You might be familiar with the hot, young, blonde bombshell, Kendra Sutherland.

This is modeled after her pussy.

The sleeve, however, is a different story.

I don’t know any woman who is built like that.

It might look a little crazy with all its different textures, but it really surprised me how realistic this one feels.

You’ll definitely feel the variety of ridges and twisted ribs in there, but it’s far from overwhelming and won’t make you cum as fast as you think.

The Teagan Presley Bulletproof

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This sleeve looks innocuous enough, but it certainly doesn’t feel boring if you try it out.

In my opinion, this simulates anal sex the best.

The Vortex

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The name seems like it would be a challenge and looking at it doesn’t really scream “gentle,” but you’d be surprised.

This is very cleverly designed as it simulates being massaged in a twisting motion.

Think very enthusiastic hand job, but with the softest hands ever.

For the purists

Maybe you’re a no-frills kind of guy and don’t want anything fancy or complicated.

I certainly thought like this when I was just first starting out. Why complicate something as simple as masturbation?

I’ve long changed by mind since then, but it’s good to get back to the basic and see how ILF earned their fans from all over the world.

The Classic

fleshlight original sleeve

While the more experienced users would probably say that this is the most lackluster out of all the products they offer, I think it’s worth knowing what the original feels like.

This is the one that created all the buzz in the first place.

It will get the job done and if you’re the type of guy who gets a little too excited just looking at the more complicated textures, this is the one you should get first.

FleshSkins

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This one doesn’t come with a case and your hand will still be in control of the tightness when jacking off. Think of it as an upgraded version of masturbating the usual way.

It’s transparent, so if seeing your penis getting milked gets you off, that’s a plus. They also include a drying rack for cleanup.

For blowjob lovers

Sometimes, getting a blowjob feels better for me than actually having sex.

I like the idea that the focus in entirely on me and I get to lay back and just enjoy the sensation.

But not all girls are dying to just go down on you, that’s a fact.

And there’s nothing worse than a half-hearted blowjob.

Here are my favorite models that mimic that little piece of heaven.

The Turbo Ignition

fleshlight turbo ignition

Hats off to the folks over at ILF.

They outdid themselves with this one.

They even made the opening to feel like lips around your penis.

As you slide in the “throat,” there is some resistance and gets tighter, which actually mimics deepthroating.

This is around time your girlfriend will start to gag if she’s even willing to do it.

The texture doesn’t even look remotely like an actual throat.

Not even close.

But man, it sure feels like the real thing.

You’re going to want to get this one if you want to know what it feels like to be sucked off by a master and one who doesn’t know how to say no and will swallow every single time.

The Launch

fleshlight launchpad

If you want to take it a step further and get a totally hands-free experience, get the Launch.

Powered by Kiroo, this one is a fully automated piece of genius innovation.

I got a kick out of this one because it’s compatible with some VR porn clips that could be easily accessed on your favorite incognito websites.

Every movement of the hottest girls you see on the screen, you will feel.

I had to train a long time to even last 5 minutes.

Additionally, you can manually program the strokes however way you want.

You control how fast it is and how long you want the strokes to be.

This was dangerous for me. I never wanted to leave my room.

For the veterans

If you’re looking to improve your endurance or you just want the most mind-blowing orgasms ever, here are your options.

The Stamina Training Unit

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This is perhaps the most redeeming out of all the Fleshlights if you’re going to have to explain yourself to a wife or girlfriend.

No woman is going to say no if your excuse is that you want to last longer in bed. I’ve got to applaud you for wanting to step your game up.

But if you have no one special in your life and just want to prolong and savor your masturbation sessions, this is a good for that reason too.

Simply put, this is the one that feels most like the vaginal canal. It’s very tight and can be quite the challenge for the one who get two pumps in and they’re done.

The technique to practicing how to hold off on cumming is to stop whenever you need to and go again.

This is not very possible if you’re having sex with a partner.

Most women will egg you on and don’t want you to stop.

With the STU, you can take your own sweet time.

Trust me, the more you hold off, the more intense your orgasms get (as I’m sure you’ve figured out by yourself).

The Stoya Destroya

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I love Stoya.

She’s that dark-haired, snow white vixen with the smoldering eyes.

She’s not exactly the girl-next-door, but more like the mysterious librarian who you just know has some tricks up her sleeve when it comes to the bedroom.

She is known for her hardcore and fetish scenes and has formed quite the sizable fan base.

Honestly, the name lives up to the sleeve itself.

It is a destroyer.

There is an amazing variety of protrusions and ridges that will tickle and squeeze the living daylight out of you.

This is not one for the faint-hearted.

The Jenna Haze Obsession

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If tightness is your thing, this is your best bet.

If you look at this texture, you can see that it has got a concentration of soft bristle-like nubs all throughout.

They are arranged at an optimal angle that offers the most resistance.

You barely have to adjust the suction on this one because it will literally suck you in.

You can also see the it gets more intense as you push further in.

If you can last more than 10 minutes with this one, I’d be thoroughly impressed.

This design was conceptualized with the least amount of BS.

It will get the job done, guaranteed.

The Nikki Benz Reign

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You’ve got to a bit bigger than average to fully enjoy this one.

There are three chambers you can pump into that are divided by two very tight and narrow constrictions.

The first one is a simple crisscross.

This opens into the next chamber where there are rectangular bumps and this leads into the first constriction.

These two alone would make any guy blow, but of course, it doesn’t end there.

You get a ribbed texture that feels like anal sex and then it ends with the classic angled nubs.

If you’re longer than 7 inches, beyond these nubs, it just gets tighter.

This is the one that I haven’t quite gotten over and still go back to every once in a while.

If you like a challenge, then this one is for you.

The Adriana Chechik Next Level

 Adriana Chechik Next Level

This one is a doozy.

I mean it just looks insane.

The main chamber is just loaded with these tiny bumps.

Although it’s not the tightest, once you get passed that about 1.4 inches in, then you’ll feel the constriction.

The last chamber is where it’s at.

Again, 7-inchers or more are the only ones who can get to this part, so it’s very important to match the right textures with you penis size to get the best results.

This chamber is unique and houses two long strips along the walls of the sleeve.

Both of them have bumps that you’ll feel from all sides of your penis.

I’ve got to say that this is a strong finish.

One of the upsides of this texture is that it’s very easy to clean unlike most of the more intense sleeves.

It actually has a lot of space and is quicker to air dry.

The Dominika Butterfly

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Dominika C is up there when it when it comes to my all-time favorite porn stars list.

Modeled after her beautiful pussy, this sleeve’s opening is not very difficult.

Especially if you’re particularly endowed girth-wise, the first chamber is a walk in the park.

But the second chamber is where it gets intense and it’s a challenge from there on.

It’s very narrow and the walls have been packed very tightly with soft nubs.

The last chamber is why this texture stands out for me.

It looks like a bunch of stacked rectangular bumps.

Even without pumping so much, the stimulation from these bumps against the head of your penis is sure to drive you wild.

What I like about this texture, apart from the distinct last chamber, is that it doesn’t look that intimidating.

It looks like it was designed with a lot of thought and it gives the user the right stimulation on the right spots.

The Vibro

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Who says vibrators are only for women?

The Vibro comes with what they call “bullets” which you put batteries into and insert in the sleeve.

These create the most amazing vibrations to surely make you go overboard with pleasure.

If the other models are just not cutting it for you, then this one is surely worth the try.

For those who like to see all the action

I’m not sure why I’ve developed a liking for seeing my penis slide in and out of a Fleshlight and at this point, I don’t really care to know.

I’m just glad they included this option for us who are a little freakier.

The Fleshlight ICE

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The ICE comes with three different openings called Lady, Butt and Pure.

The Lady and Butt are pretty self-explanatory, but the Pure is just a hole.

It’s perfect for the minimalist.

According to most reviews, this is the most highly-rated one.

Its main selling point is that it’s see-through, so you get the visual stimulation of watching yourself penetrate the device.

This is also built to accommodate even the bigger penises as it’s about 10 inches long.

It’s big and definitely not discrete.

The case can also house any sleeve you want, so you can replace it any time you want.

The sleeve is very soft like a firmer Jell-O.

The best thing about the ICE is the suction.

Gentlemen, this feels like being sucked off by lady with a vengeance.

I can’t really compare the texture of the ICE to anything else.

It doesn’t feel like vaginal, anal or oral sex.

It is truly exceptional and I can see why everyone is raving about it.

For the traveler

Most of these Fleshlights, even though innocent-looking enough, can be quite bulky and not exactly luggage-friendly.

And like any other sane person, you would want to avoid being held up by the TSA because they just needed to check out this “suspicious” item.

The Quickshot

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As the name implies, this is perfect for when you want to just stroke one out and pass out on your hotel bed.

It’s tiny and can easily fit in a bigger toiletries case and it’s very low-key.

No one would even bat an eye.

This not only comes in handy if you travel a lot.

This could also be good if you are living with roommates or you have a girlfriend who doesn’t like the idea of you jacking off with a toy.

Since it’s significantly smaller than a normal Fleshlight, it’s the easiest to clean too.

The Fleshlight Go Surge

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The Fleshlight Go series is a line of Fleshlights designed to be smaller and, might I add, a little sleeker.

Since it’s more compact, you’ll also have the added bonus of having your junk look larger (if that matters to you).

If you want something easier to carry around and don’t want to compromise on sensation, go with the Surge option.

Last minute tips and my final word

If you’re still having trouble picking the right one, you could easily just customize your very own Fleshlight.

You can have options with every step from the case, the orifice and the sleeve.

I hope I’ve convinced you that this is something that you should own if you want to explore news ways to pleasure yourself.

There are very few things we can constantly enjoy in life, so we might as well make the best of it and get the right tools.